I'm with you on this one. It's not the act itself but the rigmarole of all the preparations that really kills it for me. I'll take a BJ over sticking it in the butt every time.Even though I'm a faggot I really, really don't want to do anal. Can't we just cuddle?
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Marry meAs a Bi woman who has mostly been in same sex relationships, I think the 'movement' should be called GLB, I haven't fully been convinced that the T belongs.
I do believe that gay men have suffered the most and the G should be first as an honorific of sorts.
Men have suffered unspeakably worse for their homosexuality than women have. Like you said, not only the hate crimes and prejudice, both individual and institutional. Lesbians went stealth while cops bashed men at beats, bars and parades. I'm not saying lesbians haven't experienced homophobia but they often were seen as spinsters, career women, or crazy cat ladies, the eccentric aunt that never married etc.
Young gay males kicked out of home didn't have the same safety net that young girls have. Much in the same way that generally there are more community services for women than men.
I very much detest the term 'male privilege' it's stupid at the best of times but when lesbians speak of gay male privilege, I just can't...
And that's why all the faggots in this thread aren't part of the wider LGBT community.Have a trans friend who sent me a TEDx talk by some TV evangelist who trooned out. I didn't even last 5 minutes. I noped out around the time she started going on about the wage gap. I didn't have the heart to tell her I thought this person just traded one racket for another. Really does feel like the LGBT community is some kind of shonky religion these days.
It's been over a decade since I've been to pride. It's like all the bad stereotypes and depravity of the community is on full display. Some of the shit that goes on is just disgusting. I couldn't be a part of that anymore.
The last time I got dragged to one, it ended up getting shut down by...drumroll please...protestors from Black Lives Matter!It's been over a decade since I've been to pride. It's like all the bad stereotypes and depravity of the community is on full display. Some of the shit that goes on is just disgusting. I couldn't be a part of that anymore.
There is no “wider LGBT community” because there is no “LGBT community.” Sure, homosexuals (“LG”) used to team up for political activism, but we won; the war is over in the Anglosphere. What’s left of those organizations has been commandeered by queer-theorizing, intersectional-feministing trxnsfxlx who bare little resemblance to the populations they claim to represent.
In reality, gay men and lesbians inhabit different ecosystems: separate bars, clubs, sports leagues, dating apps. Bisexual men have no presence, but I presume it’s different for lesbians because bisexual women never shut up about theirs.
Occasionally, some wayward cosplaying straight girl appears on Grindr, writes “dick pics are violence!” then cries into her Tumblr account. That’s the most I interact with “transmen.” As for MtF transsexuals, they aren’t interested in gay men and gay men aren’t interested in them. Would that lesbians were so lucky.
I think most of the people who opine on this stuff 1) aren’t gay or 2) if they are gay, they have very little experience.