Has anyone noticed less hookups since the pandemic?
'Rona's done what AIDS couldn't; made horny gay men keep it in their pants.Has anyone noticed less hookups since the pandemic?
Unless the goal is to promote it.And we certainly shouldn't be making any effort to give them "representation" where their perversions are not directly relevant to the subject at hand.
'Rona's done what AIDS couldn't; made horny gay men keep it in their pants.
You aren't attractive to other women because women aren't attractive to women. Women who claim to be attracted to other women are totally lying and lesbians are 100% faking it.I wonder how attractive I am to the same sex. (I'm a bi woman for background). I don't feel that attractive personally, but it's kind of statistically guaranteed that some men out there will find me attractive. But with women, I've never had any lady tell me I'm cute. I don't know a ton of lesbians or bi women and don't really go to lgbt club-type places so that may be why. I just wonder if I'm any of their types.
Heh. Okay dude/tte. You tell yourself that. I'll go on liking pretty ladies.You aren't attractive to other women because women aren't attractive to women. Women who claim to be attracted to other women are totally lying and lesbians are 100% faking it.
Ahem.'Rona's done what AIDS couldn't; made horny gay men keep it in their pants.
I wonder how attractive I am to the same sex. (I'm a bi woman for background). I don't feel that attractive personally, but it's kind of statistically guaranteed that some men out there will find me attractive. But with women, I've never had any lady tell me I'm cute. I don't know a ton of lesbians or bi women and don't really go to lgbt club-type places so that may be why. I just wonder if I'm any of their types.
This probably sounds very cringy. But I'm just musing.
Heh. Okay dude/tte. You tell yourself that. I'll go on liking pretty ladies.
I noticed you only mention women. Do you think the same about gay/bi men?
(Edit: It's not quite the same, but you sound like someone who hates a certain food so you say that no one else likes it either and anyone who does is lying.)
Yeah. I only replied once, maybe twice since it won’t get anywhere with ‘em. I know people in real life like that though, who think “being bi isn’t real/you’re lying for attention/etc.” It’s a thing. But with things like who I’m attracted to, my own personal experience kind of trumps someone else telling me about myself. It’s not even a major part of my identity. Liking both sexes is like liking salmon or cheesecake or whatever. It’s my personal taste.It's probably bait, but it does say a lot about the naivety of a person who is unironically certain about something they have zero perspective on.
Some people hit puberty and spend the rest of their lives wanting gay sex and some don't. The reality of that experience isn't really a debate for the former.
It's rand /pol/: he literally posts nothing but bait. TBh he should probably be banned.It's probably bait
Yeah plus there is a great way not to hear about bi not being real, bi just for attention and what have you, not talk about it. I don't mean be in a closet, just be normal about dating and sex. Most people don't talk about these topics that much and even then they don't start it by stating their sexuality. Sure be honest when people ask or bi is relevant to the conversation but generally just let it go. It doesn't matter if people don't know what you want sleep with unless you want to sleep with them. It's mostly irrelevant fact about you like what type of underwear you prefer to wear.Yeah. I only replied once, maybe twice since it won’t get anywhere with ‘em. I know people in real life like that though, who think “being bi isn’t real/you’re lying for attention/etc.” It’s a thing. But with things like who I’m attracted to, my own personal experience kind of trumps someone else telling me about myself. It’s not even a major part of my identity. Liking both sexes is like liking salmon or cheesecake or whatever. It’s my personal taste.
I can answer the bolded part: Because, until very recently, the party line for Republicans was that homosexuals are perverted degenerates and nearly-universally pedophiles as well, and that they should be (at best) completely socially ostracized and prosecuted for sodomy and at worst be chemically castrated or given ice-pick lobotomies. In short, many Republican lawmakers wanted America to have laws like your home country does regarding same-sex activity, and fought against said laws being repealed. Because of this history, to many in the community, a homosexual Republican is a moral hypocrite who supports the persecution of other members of the community. Would a member of your community still protect another member's physical safety if it came out he was reporting members of the community to the government for being homosexual? The reasoning is along those lines.I know I do a lot of shitposting on here, but this is not that. I have a genuine inquiry about something that has troubled me ever since I moved to the United States, for US-residing homosexuals.
One of the many (many many) reasons I and my husband moved to the United States was fear as gay men of facing legitimate persecution under the courts. My country of origin still treats same-sex intercourse as a major crime, with frightening punishments ranging from mandatory sterilization to imprisonment and even in at least one extreme case in the last decade death.
This has bred a very close-knit and discreet homosexual community, even across the male-female line, where people are (for lack of a better word) protective of one another's physical safety regardless of political affiliation or ideological bent. I had expected when we moved here to find the homosexual community similar in nature, but instead it seems very rigidly divided; Moreover, political allegiance seems king above all. And I'm just sort of confused by all of this. Out of all the cultural changes I've had to experience with becoming a US citizen, this one has been the most perplexing.
How did the community in the United States develop to have ended up this way? Why is being a Democrat (or an SJW?) treated as a requirement to be homosexual? Why do lesbians here seem to outright despise gays, and vice versa, when at the very least logically there should be patient ambivalence between the two?
I know I do a lot of shitposting on here, but this is not that. I have a genuine inquiry about something that has troubled me ever since I moved to the United States, for US-residing homosexuals.
One of the many (many many) reasons I and my husband moved to the United States was fear as gay men of facing legitimate persecution under the courts. My country of origin still treats same-sex intercourse as a major crime, with frightening punishments ranging from mandatory sterilization to imprisonment and even in at least one extreme case in the last decade death.
This has bred a very close-knit and discreet homosexual community, even across the male-female line, where people are (for lack of a better word) protective of one another's physical safety regardless of political affiliation or ideological bent. I had expected when we moved here to find the homosexual community similar in nature, but instead it seems very rigidly divided; Moreover, political allegiance seems king above all. And I'm just sort of confused by all of this. Out of all the cultural changes I've had to experience with becoming a US citizen, this one has been the most perplexing.
How did the community in the United States develop to have ended up this way? Why is being a Democrat (or an SJW?) treated as a requirement to be homosexual? Why do lesbians here seem to outright despise gays, and vice versa, when at the very least logically there should be patient ambivalence between the two?
This gives me the vibe of a rare endangered species being caught on camera after years without sightings.Welp, I stand corrected. Just a few pages ago I was reminiscing fondly over the disappearance of the word "transvestite."
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