I despise feminine gays, because men are majorly masculine. Not 100% masculine, it's impossible to be either 100% masculine or feminine. The definition of homosexuality is to be fully attracted to it's own gender. Again, I'm not accusing you of meaning this, but in essential. Homosexuality is not a personality disorder, but many people like to think that and scream homophobia when the feminine gays gets told to stop pretending to be more feminine just because they're gay.
I would say that feminine gays are homophobic, because they are damaging the reputations to gays.
I don't think that feminine gays ruin the reputation of gays. I know this is sounds like the whole "trans started the gay movement". But according to academics, it was the gender non-conforming behavior of femme gays that gave birth to modern homosexuality. We were lopped together in the beginning.
Though, I do agree that some gay men do act like caricature of women. But that's another story.
Everybody forgets to count the gays that don't stick out like sore thumbs. If your sample set is 100% "YAAAAS QUEEEEEN" then yeah, all gays do exhibit gender-non-conforming behavior. The ones who are conforming, you probably aren't aware are gay. Something to consider.
I wasn't talking about the "YAs Queen" types. I meant that I think gay men appear different than straight men. The micro-mannerism that gay men have