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Same, another reason why I was so adverse to the "stereotypical gays" was because being so deep in the closet made me homophobic; I wanted to just be "the good, normal kind, not a weird flamer" so people would leave me alone. I assume this is the motive for a lot of other gay people who act like this.You make an excellent point here. I used to be very critical of the gender-nonconforming gays and lesbians because it seemed like being a part of the community meant dressing and acting a certain way, and I had no interest in becoming a stereotype. However, I learned to accept that my current freedoms were a result of those who couldn't (or refused to) fit in and that my attitude wasn't much different from straight, homophobic people.