I have two female acquaintances who own BD item(s). Not the realistic (or oversized) ones, that's probably for those people wishing a horse or whatever would rape 'em (I still wonder how that happens. Like fetishes are developed during childhood via trauma n stuff right? what the fuck human psyche). Gotta say, they're incredibly funny to look at and wave about. I dare say that a lot of people would just think it's a weird decorative sculpture if they didn't examine it. Apparently, in use, they have a lot of textures and unique shapes so they just feel different than most other dildos you can buy. They also sell a weird ass lube that made me gag when I touched it (which is, apparently, hilarious). It has a genuinely disconcerting, slimy af viscosity *shiver*
I'm just going to ignore the slimy lube part, that's... Moving on, totally agree with the sculpture thing, some of them are like pretty cool looking, swirly colored, vaguely phallic pieces of art. It would make sense for the fantasy ones to be designed more for human use with just more imagination, but I really wonder if the realistic ones physically feel good, of if it's 100% fetish fantasy. I just don’t think anyone would buy a realistic one unless they have a fetish, so we'll never have an objective answer for that one. Maybe a sex toy blogger has reviewed one? IDK I feel like sex toy bloggers have every fetish possible, though, so they'd be into it anyway. I respect their knowledge when it comes to sex toys, but you've got to be a bit weird to write about using sex toys for a living. We should have a thread about sex bloggers and sex toy bloggers.