Sex work isnt empowering - Literal whore becomes an even bigger attention whore

Oglooger

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I'm a wineloving repilled nurse now who now has a simp boyfriend 100k in savings and freedom and time on my hands. compared to my sister who got knocked up at 16 is pregnant with her 4 child at 22 and married with an equally good for nothing man I guess my years of toil paid off. Want to know what I did to my ex? I got him to bankrupt himself. he's penniless and possibly did a flip at some point. maybe if I'm lucky coofed himself out of this world.
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Niggaplease

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your sister has a family, meanwhile you have a drinking habit and a shady past as a camwhore lol
if you think this makes you look better than her then you are seriously delusional
I'd much rather be a drunk with money and a shady past than to live where she's living. her husband barely works she's living in a makeshift trailer in bumfuck Georgia and by the way my sister complains he's pretty abusive. having a family is one thing but adequetely caring for one is another entirely.
 

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So I fell over this AMA on Reddit from a supposed "fired from Covid, now e-whore and proud" kind of character.

She claims she makes between $3k and $6k a month from Onlyfans, and how that's seemingly easy to achieve. An actual onlyfans thot appears in the comments, greeted by a few fans, claiming that not even the 1% make more than $5k, and that she after years of 'hard work' and thousands of fans barely make $3k.

She claims that she was fired cause of Covid, but that she worked with medicinal marijuana; the definition of an essential job. If not obvious, the AMA is a sad attempt at stroking an ego-based she-boner and to lure people to her onlyfans. This stands out, obviously, which leads to some rather fresh takes in the comments:
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Self-aware:
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There's a lot of comments going on about dignity and "how does it feel selling out for money", as expected, but this is an actual example of selling your dignity. If you're a perfect amazonian 10/10 breed machine, who get offered $10k to suck a dude's dick, I'd almost argue that's not selling out. That's a relatively logical deal. Now, if you spend every god damn day spamming 5-6 subreddits with the same fake story just to earn maybe another $25 by the end of the month, that's selling out. And it's more or less what is killing Reddit-based porn platforms. You have these women looking for validation being blotted out by the capitalistic machine of e-thots busy watermarking their professional studio shots.
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And my exact issue with this kind of bullshit:
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I'd much rather be a drunk with money and a shady past than to live where she's living. her husband barely works she's living in a makeshift trailer in bumfuck Georgia and by the way my sister complains he's pretty abusive. having a family is one thing but adequetely caring for one is another entirely.
Yeah, you go sister! Why doesn't she have a simp boyfriend? Did she even destroy her ex's life? How can she look herself in the mirror?
 
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Niggaplease

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Yeah, you go sister! Why doesn't she have a simp boyfriend? Did she even destroy her ex's life? How can she look herself in the mirror?
I had good reason to get my ex to bankrupt himself. He thought it was okay to beat me and take my money. what You can't treat someone like shit for two years then expect them to financially get themselves in the hole with you. If he stopped being an asshole and suicide baiting me I probably would've thrown a pittance to shut him up. Yet even then he couldn't learn from mistakes. He treated me like shit and expected me to bail him out. He spent his own money on stupid shit and took mine when his rant out.
 
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Lemmingwise

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I had good reason to get my ex to bankrupt himself. He thought it was okay to beat me and take my money. what You can't treat someone like shit for two years then expect them to financially get themselves in the hole with you. If he stopped being an asshole and suicide baiting me I probably would've thrown a pittance to shut him up. Yet even then he couldn't learn from mistakes. He treated me like shit and expected me to bail him out. He spent his own money on stupid shit and took mine when his rant out.
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I had good reason to get my ex to bankrupt himself. He thought it was okay to beat me and take my money. what You can't treat someone like shit for two years then expect them to financially get themselves in the hole with you. If he stopped being an asshole and suicide baiting me I probably would've thrown a pittance to shut him up. Yet even then he couldn't learn from mistakes. He treated me like shit and expected me to bail him out. He spent his own money on stupid shit and took mine when his rant out.
Repent.
 

Niggaplease

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I'll repent when he stops being an asshole. I literally would've helped had he not been an asshole to me. but the fact even when I was in a position that I needed help he didn't and mocked me. I simply chose not to sink my money in him. there's a reason why I drink and choose a simp to be my boyfriend. The extent of what he did to me made it so bad I want to forget and not be in a position to be exploited again.
 
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I'll repent when he stops being an asshole. I literally would've helped had he not been an asshole to me. but the fact even when I was in a position that I needed help he didn't and mocked me. I simply chose not to sink my money in him. there's a reason why I drink and choose a simp to be my boyfriend. The extent of what he did to me made it so bad I want to forget and not be in a position to be exploited again.
Well if you're going to spiral out like this then could you at least spoil your nieces and nephews? There needs to be something sightly to come out of this.
 

Niggaplease

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Well if you're going to spiral out like this then could you at least spoil your nieces and nephews? There needs to be something sightly to come out of this.
I do almost all the time. just this week I sent them a package for their birthdays this month. sent them about 250 in clothes and toys. About a quarter of my pay goes to bailing my sister out of her bad life choices and buying stuff for my nieces. when their older I will see about letting them stay for the summer each year.
 
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@Niggaplease you're over thinking this. Women (most) not all are mental scum. It's a typical magic show verbally. Look at my slight of hand. Over here I get you to focus on "sex work is real work" and not the other hand where it's "I'm a scummy amoral bag of trash." It's that simple. They don't want to be dropped out of the marriage market for bad behavior so they puff up something useless. "At least I'm not x," type crap.
It's cope and self victimization for e-clit points. People are garbage for going along with stuff like this.
Jews and other journalist type filth go along with this because it's more bricks in the foundation of destroying Christian / white / black families and culture / civilization.
 

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The whole reason "sex work as empowerment" is being pushed is because elite sex trafficking rings want to be able to operate openly and anyone trying to escape or call out slavery can be dismissed as crazy or suffering some internalized oppression
It's gotten to the point where it's happening in front of peoples faces and they don't notice. You are watching trafficking, and CP, and might not even realize.

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I have a friend that used to do basicly the exact same thing as OP, she had the exact same fetish dispenser description for the incel types but apparently a good chunk of the people she dealt with were just fairly lonely people who mainly wanted company more than anything else. Depressing but not really degrading
 

Bum Driller

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First off, if any of you who condemn sex work ever watch any kind of professional pornographic material, you're fucking hypocrites.

In my opinion there is nothing wrong in doing porn or any other kind of sex work, if you do it out of your own free will. It's a free world, thankfully, and if selling your ass is your way to go about it, that's fine with me. I don't believe that sex work is in any way empowering though. Sex in itself is empowering, but I just don't see how making it professional would be more empowering.
 

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First off, if any of you who condemn sex work ever watch any kind of professional pornographic material, you're fucking hypocrites.

In my opinion there is nothing wrong in doing porn or any other kind of sex work, if you do it out of your own free will. It's a free world, thankfully, and if selling your ass is your way to go about it, that's fine with me. I don't believe that sex work is in any way empowering though. Sex in itself is empowering, but I just don't see how making it professional would be more empowering.

Saying icecream makes you fat and also sometimes eating icecream is not hypocritical.

Saying prostitution is bad for everyone involved, from prostitute to john, to pornographer to voyeur, and also in occasion being seduced by it is not hypocritical.

One does not need to be perfect to lay bare relationships between things that are bad in various ways.

It's just the people (ie you, bumdriller) with no morality trying to attack those that try to adhere to a moral code, by appealing to morality that they themselves place no value in.

Or to put more simply: why do you hold your ideological opponents to a higher standard than yourself? Is that not a tacit approval of the moral worth of their position?
 

Niggaplease

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Saying icecream makes you fat and also sometimes eating icecream is not hypocritical.

Saying prostitution is bad for everyone involved, from prostitute to john, to pornographer to voyeur, and also in occasion being seduced by it is not hypocritical.

One does not need to be perfect to lay bare relationships between things that are bad in various ways.

It's just the people (ie you, bumdriller) with no morality trying to attack those that try to adhere to a moral code, by appealing to morality that they themselves place no value in.

Or to put more simply: why do you hold your ideological opponents to a higher standard than yourself? Is that not a tacit approval of the moral worth of their position?
This.
It's one thing to hurt myself it's another matter to engage in an industry that hurts others.
 
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I'll repent when he stops being an asshole. I literally would've helped had he not been an asshole to me. but the fact even when I was in a position that I needed help he didn't and mocked me. I simply chose not to sink my money in him. there's a reason why I drink and choose a simp to be my boyfriend. The extent of what he did to me made it so bad I want to forget and not be in a position to be exploited again.
Considering that this person is clearly a bit of a histrionic whackjob based on their posting history I'm generally doubting whether their ex actually did much wrong except get involved with her. I've seen enough of Zoe Quinns thread here to know how this pattern goes; hysterical attention whoring BPD addled women aren't even capable of having relationships, just emotionally vacant sex with future accusees, and they're drawn to e-thottery like moths to a flame due to their perception of self-worth being completely externally sourced.


And as to the topic at hand, no, sex work isn't empowering, but imo there's no reason to even pay feminism overall any thought because it has no impact on an existential level and barely any on a practical level. When a person is just given things their willpower and coping mechanisms atrophy just like one's muscles and immune system do if not exercised, so when the bottom drops and they have to face reality (like, say, when they get too old to be sexually valuable) they're left drowning in simple day to day life. Even despite the fact they were pretty unhappy to begin with since they never created anything of value to be proud of.

The fact is that those who are creative, talented, and self confident have no need to complain because they will always rise above and will end up far happier even with the possibly more meager life that they built off their own backs, and those who are ungifted and insecure will find a way to fail constantly and will die miserable no matter what they're given. Same as it's always been since humans became a thing.

These people are chasing the dragon hoping if they just shovel enough shallow bullshit into the black hole where their self esteem should be that eventually they'll be happy, and that's now how it works. I pity them, honestly.
 

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Considering that this person is clearly a bit of a histrionic whackjob based on their posting history I'm generally doubting whether their ex actually did much wrong except get involved with her. I've seen enough of Zoe Quinns thread here to know how this pattern goes; hysterical attention whoring BPD addled women aren't even capable of having relationships, just emotionally vacant sex with future accusees, and they're drawn to e-thottery like moths to a flame due to their perception of self-worth being completely externally sourced.


And as to the topic at hand, no, sex work isn't empowering, but imo there's no reason to even pay feminism overall any thought because it has no impact on an existential level and barely any on a practical level. When a person is just given things their willpower and coping mechanisms atrophy just like one's muscles and immune system do if not exercised, so when the bottom drops and they have to face reality (like, say, when they get too old to be sexually valuable) they're left drowning in simple day to day life. Even despite the fact they were pretty unhappy to begin with since they never created anything of value to be proud of.

The fact is that those who are creative, talented, and self confident have no need to complain because they will always rise above and will end up far happier even with the possibly more meager life that they built off their own backs, and those who are ungifted and insecure will find a way to fail constantly and will die miserable no matter what they're given. Same as it's always been since humans became a thing.

These people are chasing the dragon hoping if they just shovel enough shallow bullshit into the black hole where their self esteem should be that eventually they'll be happy, and that's now how it works. I pity them, honestly.
fuck it I'm really chomping at the bit to not powerlevel to much but fuck it.
here's a comprehensive list of what my ex did to me:
1. break into my house with out permission and took roughly 200 dollars out of my bedroom, all the while locking a possum in my house.
2. tortured me the next day under the promise of returning said money then afterward threatened me if I told anyone he'd traffick me to Detroit and said he would video and send it to my mother.
3. he consistentantly verbally abuse me at every turn, and always use his connections as means of intimidation.
4. he kept suicide baiting me when he felt no other method worked.
5. Every time I showed a hint of morality he would find some way to punish it.
6. He took control of my finances and isolated me from friends and family.
7. he would provide me info of other shit he was doing to other girls as a means of intimidation.
8. Did I mention every little thing I told him he used it against me?
9. was mean to my animals in front of me basically abused them.
10. literally tried to force me into other kinds of sex work.

you try going through all of that for years and not come out a tad bit fucked up. I literally wouldn't have taken revenge and helped him if he repented. My gayop was on him was only trying to get him to understand how I fucking felt. I didn't even fuck anyone else when I was with him. Point is I only rendered to him what he did to me, I would've forgiven him if he understood how I felt for once. but he didn't so essentially he screwed himself. At some point I deluded myself that if I simply loved and endure he would change, and I thought If I put him in a desperate situation like I was he would get just how badly I felt then he would change but he didn't got it.
 
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