Social justice is exhausting -

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YTV In the 90s

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I've tried to talk about this in a number of places, but either I'm going into the viper pit and discussing with SJW types who don't want to understand how their way of thinking alienates or frustrates others, or it's the /pol/ types that only care about the latest drama, the slippery slope, and how the world is going to go to shit and they're all magically going to become cool nazi space marines.

As my name implies, I grew up in the 90s, I was happy in my early and teen years, and I always carried a philosophy of being kind to others or being fair and equal with people. I've always tried to see both sides of an issue even if I don't necessarily agree with people, but I find it so goddamn difficult to be sympathetic to these modern causes. On the SJW side it seems like everywhere I go, all I see is propaganda about how being Gay, trans, black, brown, or a small selection of religions is something to be praised and needs more representation. When all I can ever see anymore is representation. It doesn't stop, I've tried to remove myself and ignore it, but everywhere I go even in public, there are 'inclusiveness' and colorful rainbow ads everywhere, every 2/3 girls has a strip of bright colour in her hair, and piercings and progressive hipsterwear is everywhere. Every bank and big company needs to let everyone know how pro gay and inclusive they are, and its just been rubbed in my face so often I've grown sick of it. For something that is supposed to be the minority, it feels like maybe 50-80% of media includes it now. That number is pulled from nothing, I just feel like its very very common, at least in my area.

So all that said, you'd think I must be one of those gay hating tards and a member of the westboro baptist church or something, but I'm not. I've had gay friends since around grade 9 highschool years ago, I was completely fine with it because people were just people, and nothing was being shoved in my face. I've had a few trans friends over the years as well, and although I didn't agree with chopping up genitals and taking pills to make yourself look more feminine, I respected people's right to do whatever they wanted with their bodies. I would have asked a genie to turn me into a girl back in highschool if it meant I could have dated my hot red headed lesbian friend, but all this surgery? that's just playing pretend in my eyes. Anyway, I grew more distant from my trans friends, not because I suddenly decided I don't like trans people in general, but because all social media propaganda bullshit made its way into their heads, and being progressive is all they would ever talk about. When we met we talked like humans, now all they care about is whatever justice cause is topping reddit, or who's the most biggoted, and how Trump is evil and how there are nazis everywhere who want to kill them. People just can't be normal anymore, it sucks.

It took a lot of energy to write all of that, but I guess I should cover the other side too. Because if I'm not with them ^ I'm against them. The other side all knows /pol/ as a household name, and is most likely a mix of teenagers and 19-29 year olds who see some kind of cause in fighting the SJWs because they're so obnoxious. Except they themselves believe every bullshit story that comes their way, and buy into every conspiracy theory that implicates anyone who aligns themselves with the SJW side. Anyone who hates the gays or is even slightly racist is based and redpilled, and anyone who disagrees is subverting them and probably a jew. The people on this side can be so braindead about not realizing they're being manipulated. Hate clicks are just as much advertising as regular ones, and every new outrage keeps making their favorite websites like buzzfeed and CNN more money. They keep hoping that every new sourceless bullshit story is going to be the one that finally brings some shadowy being pulling the strings down, and exposes how all the SJWs are blood drinking occultists that will all die on some day of reckoning that never comes. It's frustrating, it's less frustrating because big businesses aren't pushing them the same way they do the SJWs, and I don't go outside and see ads to join the SS squads, but it's still maddening that the only alternative to not liking SJWs is this unaware easily manipulated hivemind.

No matter where you stand, I'm sure some of you if you're old enough will remember that you used to be able to talk to more people without having to pick a side. People might be batshit over one particular topic, but you didn't have to pick some stupid political party as a prerequisite for who you could be friends with. You could disagree with people and coexist, and the only people protesting were usually just PETA or small groups that no one really gave much attention to. I guess the point of this thread, besides me venting my frustrations is, is there any hope of returning to how things were? and if so how can it be done? or are we just stuck in this some pandora's box that's going to go on until I'm old and dead?
 

Dr. Dingo DVM

Not particularly clever or funny
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I used to be a cringy as fuck "anti-SJW" on Tumblr back when that was mildly cool. That was even more exhausting. Eventually I got just as reactionary as them and it was just driving me absolutely crazy.

Most people don't give a fuck. They just want to pay the bills and put food on the table. Progressive bullshit isn't even a consideration. If you're that wound up about it that all you see is progressivism, try just not thinking it too hard.
 

sadbird

I cry every time
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I used to be a cringy as fuck "anti-SJW" on Tumblr back when that was mildly cool. That was even more exhausting. Eventually I got just as reactionary as them and it was just driving me absolutely crazy.

Most people don't give a fuck. They just want to pay the bills and put food on the table. Progressive bullshit isn't even a consideration. If you're that wound up about it that all you see is progressivism, try just not thinking it too hard.
I can attest to it being exhausting, but in my case it was because I was trying not to lose people I cared about to it. I lumberjacked my internet for a few months to catch a break and snap back to reality which was good because I was driving me insane. I realized obsessing over it was not only a different flavor of the same thing but that they were damned even before all that.
You'll be happy to know there are places out there where people really don't care or don't even know all that much about it though. So keep your head up, kang.
 

YTV In the 90s

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Most people don't give a fuck. They just want to pay the bills and put food on the table. Progressive bullshit isn't even a consideration. If you're that wound up about it that all you see is progressivism, try just not thinking it too hard.
Fair, I do try but like I said there are real life reminders every day, maybe it's just the fact I live in Canada, but I have to abide by people's pronouns at my jobs, and listen to them compliment each other on how trans they are. I avoid any sort of political discussion like the plague, but I still have to hear coworkers discussing it and nod my head in agreement if it ever makes it my way.

You'll be happy to know there are places out there where people really don't care or don't even know all that much about it though. So keep your head up, kang.

Well that's at least a little encouraging, would be nice if I could just filter the internet for those people. I just want to have fun again.
 

Dom Cruise

I'll fucking Mega your ass, bitch!
True & Honest Fan
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I understand how you feel.

There's just something very toxic and difficult about the modern cultural climate, I've seen many different online communities become intolerably toxic where you are only allowed to have one opinion on certain topics and if you go against the grain, no matter how respectful and even handed you try to be, you are viciously hit with ad hominem attacks.

It just sucks, they don't realize how that pushes people away and only makes things worse for themselves.
 

Kuchipatchi

Hello-tchi!
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My city had a pride event in August that extended pride month into pride summer, especially when Santander was a month late with the rainbow propaganda. I just avoid giving my money to rainbow products during that time and avoid shops that have solidarity signs on them.

As for trannies, AVOID THEM AT ALL COST, at least until it stops being fashionable to hate your body then they should be how they were before SJWs were a thing: safe to talk to.

If anyone mentions any SJW shit like pronouns, affirmative action, oppression, blah blah blah, just laugh at them and say, "I thought that you were talking about issues in the Middle East but OK." Or something along those lines. Laughter is their worst enemy because they're unhappy and hate happier people.

Don't know if this will help or not.
 

Clop

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Wow, I think I found a soulmate. Are you sure you didn't just nick my biography?

You're stuck with it, buddy. You know how grandpa was vexed about all the modern bollocks? Well you're next. Grandpa just never told you how fucking vexed he really was. Just get a corner of your own out of this bullshit's way and enjoy being sane.

I'll buy you a beer down the road.
 

Rancid Flid

Panzer vor !
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Fair, I do try but like I said there are real life reminders every day, maybe it's just the fact I live in Canada, but I have to abide by people's pronouns at my jobs, and listen to them compliment each other on how trans they are. I avoid any sort of political discussion like the plague, but I still have to hear coworkers discussing it and nod my head in agreement if it ever makes it my way.



Well that's at least a little encouraging, would be nice if I could just filter the internet for those people. I just want to have fun again.

If you really want to start having fun again, then you need to try & be a bit more based, lose your inhibitions & stop caring about what other people think. Be honest & if you don't like the trannies at work, tell them how gross & degenerate they are, or hint at it if this view might get you sacked. Demand your own toilet facilities for normal, people, a safe-space away from the mentally ill perverts.

Proper people will respect your honest views even if they don't agree with you.

Start larping as a Muslim or something so your religious views will have to be accepted & respected. If you're a man, grow a Hitler 'tache, or get some weird temporary tattoos & stick them on your face. Pretend you've somehow developed Tourettes & randomly shout out some inappropriate words a few times a day. Get some sort of protection against non-PC views if needs be.

Whatever you do, you'll feel better about this if you are able to state your views openly & honestly, be the Black Sheep, be yourself & if people don't like it, that's their problem, not yours. Honesty is the best policy & trolling these freaks can be a lot of fun. Fuck society, fuck the police, live life as free as you can or learn to put up with this crap.
 

CheezzyMach

Viva Latina
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Social Justice is exhausting, yes. It will run its course. These things usually do. Though, it usually takes years.

In 5 years, personal pronouns will have stopped being trendy 3 years prior.
Pretty much in 10 years people will probably be bitching about the "edgy" selfish zeitgeist we'll be in like in the 70s and late 90s-2000s.
 
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