I've gotten friends to play Souls with me and they always whine about how invasions are unfair, invasions suck, how it should be opt-in, the usual. Preaching to the choir here but I don't understand this mindset and think it's pretty poor of them to get so salty over an intended mechanic, it's not like the invader themselves hacked their way into the game to grief them with cheats. Maybe it's because they suck at PvP? I'm average at PvP at best but when I watch, one of them is a serial button masher in PvE and predictably gets owned in PvP. He rage quits. The other one seems like they don't quite gel with Souls. I don't wanna be that person who says GIT GUD but I'm seriously wondering how to tell them both "you suck at PvP, get better and you'll stop dying to invaders" without coming across as an asshole.