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MormonofID

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Tbf single mum households are bad for kids as many studies suggest, and just because Carson is successful doesn't mean it's not harmful or that it doesn't hold a kid back. There are successful people who came from hardships or had a tough upbringing.
Oh, I totally agree. But demonizing single moms and their children for things often beyond their control is still wrong.
 

mate

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A rather contentious issue over the past ~50 years is whether women should work or stay at home and be meek housewives. While the former is becoming increasingly more common, there are those who not only cling to the latter, but demonize anyone who dares suggest that the former has any merit.

Yeah, but the other way around is much more common. You demonstrate that yourself by saying 'meek housewives' and expecting asspats.

Oh, I totally agree. But demonizing single moms and their children for things often beyond their control is still wrong.

What do you mean often beyond their control? It isn't often beyond their control. The entire reason this situation has arisen is because women have a monopoly on reproductive rights and fathers have none.

It is only beyond their control if they were raped, and even then they could have gotten the child aborted. The majority of single mothers are not rape victims. Stop treating adult women like children. Actions have consequences. It is trivially easy to look up the stats of what happens to kids that grow up in single parent households. Any woman who chooses to have a child either alone or with a man they are not married to (and thus legally tied to) is unspeakably selfish and stupid.

Thanks for showing me this community though. They seem pretty based.
 

Cripple

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Yeah, but the other way around is much more common. You demonstrate that yourself by saying 'meek housewives' and expecting asspats.



What do you mean often beyond their control? It isn't often beyond their control. The entire reason this situation has arisen is because women have a monopoly on reproductive rights and fathers have none.

It is only beyond their control if they were raped, and even then they could have gotten the child aborted. The majority of single mothers are not rape victims. Stop treating adult women like children. Actions have consequences. It is trivially easy to look up the stats of what happens to kids that grow up in single parent households. Any woman who chooses to have a child either alone or with a man they are not married to (and thus legally tied to) is unspeakably selfish and stupid.

Thanks for showing me this community though. They seem pretty based.

So what about women whose husband abandons them? Are they "unspeakably selfish" or the man who flees his responsibilities? Single mothers indeed don't always get a choice.

Widows exist.

This too.

That aside, is Voat the dumping ground of Reddit?
 

Flying_with_the_Penguins

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Silly bean, feminists don't say that - they want their PhD in gender/women studies to be as well paid as STEM.

They only want other women to go into STEM. More of a "do as I say not as I do" type of situation, similar to how incels who crave the return of 1950s style traditionalism behave like absolute degenerates in their personal lives.
 

Monika H.

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Actually... there's a fairly active Facebook community run by women that is exactly like that, both in Italy and the Czech Republic. Having lived in the first for almost three years and living in the latter for seven now, I know both the languages and can bring them there and translate.
Trigger alert though, the amount of ignorance is very strong.
 

RadicalCentrist

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who crave the return of 1950s style traditionalism behave like absolute degenerates in their personal lives.
Why does ANYONE want this is beyond me. Working 40+ hours in manufacturing just to come home to kids that hate you and a sexless marriage? How often was the father the actual 'authority' figure instead of being de-facto the mother by virtue of being home all day? I do not see what men got in exchange for all of this.

Instead, we have generations of young men working less and less while still getting more sex than those traditionalist's - which is what we've always wanted anyway. Let women have their careers - they are quickly realizing that men have historically dodged work at every opportunity for a reason.

The children suffer, of course, but let's be real here - does anyone think The Current Year is a sustainable civilization anyway?
 

BobManly

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single mum households are bad for kids as many studies suggest
There are cases where that's the lesser evil. Reminds me of a friend who grew up with a single mom due to her father having sent the mom and daughters (the youngest being an infant) to the hospital repeatedly. The mom busted her ass to provide for her daughters (since obviously no child support). Could it have been better? Obviously. But things being as they are she did a decent job.

EDIT: If you're wondering why that mom had two children with a violent man: he became an addict while she was pregnant the second time. I mean it's possible that he wasn't the best choice to begin with, but he wasn't violent then.

'meek housewives'
Very often this type isn't exactly meek and is in fact very demanding. I don't have anything against housewives per se, do what you have to do.
However, lots of women just want to LARP for their own self fulfillment and at the expense of their family.
I know more than one woman that could easily take a weight off their partner's shoulder by taking a job now that the kids are older and in school, but doesn't. Or even better, the ones that have are high school drop outs, but also have the power trip of homeschooling their kids.
The truth is that they do it for themselves. In their home they can do whatever but they get praised for it by their little social media circle jerk. They are only ever in contact with each other, their kids and their husbands, living in their little 50s fantasy.
That's weak imo. Real women do what it takes to care for their family. Be it work or be a housewife, without the attention whoring.

Single moms are the beginnings of communism.
That's actually more of a western liberal thing. In the soviet union for example women were kind of expected to be mothers, homemakers, workers and occasionally soldiers.
The attitude that Russians have today regarding the role of a woman is very much a legacy of communism.
(... also lots of commies blame single mothers on the capitalist state. Just saying)

The Soviet Union actually awarded medals to women who had distinguished themselves as mothers (by pushing out more babies than most).
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Although, that was pretty common for the era and nazis did it as well.
 
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