Stephanie Cianfriglia / Sapphire Crimson Claw / Yarrow (Ayla) Brown / meowitch666 / bigfatwitchbitch - Obese xe/xyr shut-in, says she has sex with serial killers' ghosts, attempted child groomer, womb wizard, hand sanitizer sommelier

marjoram

I'm a jerk feline
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I know it's sort of old news at this point, but as she so bafflingly brought it up again, I'm still absolutely mystified by the whole 'I went and did a job interview but straight-up told them I wasnt ever considering actually taking it'. What was the purpose there, I cannot fathom why she felt the need to waste somebody's time so she could larp as a bare-minimum-of-societally-worthwhile human being. Trying to convince herself that she could even get hired? Feeling some guilt about the fact she continues to all of jack and shit with regards to her ~trans nonprofit~ and knows inside that it'll never be anything beyond her fake credentials on the internet? Just desperately bored because she has nothing to fill a day and hasn't for years? America needs answers.

Also I can't imagine the interviewer didn't tell all their friends 'you're not gonna believe the sped who came in today just to jerk me around for an hour'. Good job making yourself even LESS hireable when you eventually do have to face the world and get a job, Stapphie.
Sappy has to at least APPEAR to be actively looking for a job to continue to get her welfare bux. She has to apply to a certain number of jobs per month and report this to her worker. She makes it sound like this is HER idea to test out her "mental health" and her interviewing skillz, but it is not and if word of this sabotaging her interviews gets back to her SW Sap's ass is grass--they'll cut her off in a heartbeat.
My god she's stupid.
 

cogsworth

Aren't you fucking tired of screaming?
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You know what's funny? She didn't have any idea what to get either. She didn't stop him from getting the wrong things, because she didn't have a clue what he was supposed to be getting either. Yet, somehow, this is about Men Bad Ree, and has nothing to do with a lack of communication from the person who usually does the task to the person taking over the task.

You're EXACTLY the same as your father in this regard Stephanie, and yet you still act like you're better than him, when arguably you're worse in every way that matters.
 

NoFeline

im intersex i have both uwu
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Let me get out my dictionary, here...

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Translation:
People I assumed were cisgender and straight because they don't fit into my genuinely bigoted clownish perception of what an LGBT person should look like

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Translation:
Straight/bisexual women and closeted lesbians/trans men who marry people I don't like


It's sad when a Kiwifarmer does social justice better than someone who is pretending to own an LGBT nonprofit, isn't it?
 

Rat Baby

if Soros is paying me then why am i on welfare
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Sappy has to at least APPEAR to be actively looking for a job to continue to get her welfare bux. She has to apply to a certain number of jobs per month and report this to her worker. She makes it sound like this is HER idea to test out her "mental health" and her interviewing skillz, but it is not and if word of this sabotaging her interviews gets back to her SW Sap's ass is grass--they'll cut her off in a heartbeat.
My god she's stupid.
This is true for able-bodied workers, but not if you're disabled. DSS classifies Steph as disabled. It's also why she's been on food stamps for a few years instead of getting cut off after three months. All you need is a doctor to sign off on paperwork stating you're unable to work due to whatever condition and as long as you can keep getting doctor's notes when they ask for them, DSS exempts you from those work requirements. She doesn't have to apply to any jobs at all.

Used to be a welfare caseworker, not in NY but nearby. Her welfare antics really angry up the blood.
 

WinchesterPremium

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"Satan was the first true anarchist" and "truscum are bootlickers"


Biblically the first is wrong however
TRUE anarchist. Which means edgy socialist.

I know it's sort of old news at this point, but as she so bafflingly brought it up again, I'm still absolutely mystified by the whole 'I went and did a job interview but straight-up told them I wasnt ever considering actually taking it'. What was the purpose there, I cannot fathom why she felt the need to waste somebody's time so she could larp as a bare-minimum-of-societally-worthwhile human being. Trying to convince herself that she could even get hired? Feeling some guilt about the fact she continues to all of jack and shit with regards to her ~trans nonprofit~ and knows inside that it'll never be anything beyond her fake credentials on the internet? Just desperately bored because she has nothing to fill a day and hasn't for years? America needs answers.

Also I can't imagine the interviewer didn't tell all their friends 'you're not gonna believe the sped who came in today just to jerk me around for an hour'. Good job making yourself even LESS hireable when you eventually do have to face the world and get a job, Stapphie.
We're back to the "Have your cake and eat it too". She wants to look like she is trying to improve without actually improving. So she goes to a job interview to say "You see? I'm trying to get a job!" but then tells them she doesn't actually want the job to say "I'm a poor spoony who can't work :(" and to avoid having to actually do the work. It is also why she brings it up when talking about it online. "They didn't reject me, I rejected them! So I didn't fail but also totally tried without succeeding."

You know what's funny? She didn't have any idea what to get either. She didn't stop him from getting the wrong things, because she didn't have a clue what he was supposed to be getting either. Yet, somehow, this is about Men Bad Ree, and has nothing to do with a lack of communication from the person who usually does the task to the person taking over the task.

You're EXACTLY the same as your father in this regard Stephanie, and yet you still act like you're better than him, when arguably you're worse in every way that matters.
I'm pretty sure it is just a Men Be Shopping joke. Like something out of an old sitcom or standup routine.
 

cogsworth

Aren't you fucking tired of screaming?
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I didn't know going to the grocery store was "emotional labor", but alright.
Sociopaths hear the term emotional labor ONCE and they never let it go. It's supposed to be about retail workers who are forced to smile and act positive and upbeat while a customer is literally screaming in their face, threatening them, or even in extreme cases committing a robbery, but people like Stephanie read the words "emotion" and "labor" together and went "Ah, Emotional Labor is when I have to pretend I care about my friends and family, or take an interest in my significant other's feelings and activities."

There was a little uproar a few years back when some smoothbrain academics whore wrote a whole paper about how she should be paid more for the emotional labor of caring about her students and talking to disabled people.
 

PolexiaAphrodisia

Life just kills me. Do you have any pot?
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I think instead of "emotional labor" she was trying to say "mental load".

The mental load describes the concept of the wife/girlfriend/etc. taking on the brunt of the housework, since that is still what society teaches is the correct "role" for a woman - even if she works just as much or more outside the home as her male partner.

I think she's trying to assert that her mom/"cishet wives" take on the mental load when grocery shopping by remembering all the foods they have to buy each week, meal prepping and buying corresponding ingredients, knowing what foods and household necessities they need to stock up on on every grocery trip, and being able to overall navigate the grocery store due to having more experience.

Rate me however you want but I certainly will not say that the "mental load" is any kind of fake feminist bullshit. I've seen it, I've experienced it, et cetera.

But Staph, as usual, goes about it the complete wrong way and fucks up the whole message. Not to mention that she does abso-fucking-lutely nothing at all to contribute to the household, and probably would have had the strop to end all strops if she was forced to go grocery shopping alone. Say what you will about mental load, but Papa Frigly probably was able to more or less complete most of the list -whereas Staph would only have the "spoons" to conveniently load the cart with her own garbage before having a tantrum/mental collapse, then make sure to tweet all about how persecuted she felt and how evil capitalism is and how things are soooo expensive but she saw upper class whitey McCissersons with a full cart and a disabled Latina Wiccan transwoman only buying one moldy pack of tortillas.
 

Mauve Olive

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Yes because a clerk sitting behind a counter is as brave as a soldier facing enemy fire
Yes, just like how we now remember the shop assistants during the Spanish Flu, WWII rationing and the plague.

I agree that it's shit they have to put up with so much at the moment but let's be real it's the doctors, nurses, politicians and people who died who will be remembered and spoken about in history books.
 

Chicken Picnic

We saved you the last boiled egg!
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I think instead of "emotional labor" she was trying to say "mental load".

The mental load describes the concept of the wife/girlfriend/etc. taking on the brunt of the housework, since that is still what society teaches is the correct "role" for a woman - even if she works just as much or more outside the home as her male partner.

I think she's trying to assert that her mom/"cishet wives" take on the mental load when grocery shopping by remembering all the foods they have to buy each week, meal prepping and buying corresponding ingredients, knowing what foods and household necessities they need to stock up on on every grocery trip, and being able to overall navigate the grocery store due to having more experience.

Rate me however you want but I certainly will not say that the "mental load" is any kind of fake feminist bullshit. I've seen it, I've experienced it, et cetera.
i wouldn't say it's fake, but it's not a given. In any relationship, societal norms or not, you can divide up tasks and making it the 'woman's job' to go shopping is something that will only begin to change if people begin to make an effort to change it. Dad here had no idea what to buy etc, but if in doing that he gets moaned at and berated for being retarded and not knowing everything someone usually buys, he won't make the effort to learn how to do it in the future. Things like navigating a grocery store and knowing what to get can be made easier by keeping a shopping list and just going more frequently. Shops change layouts all the time here, so learning the way around your local store won't do you much good for long lol.
It has to be a joint effort, and obviously saph doing absolutely nothing to help doesn't make the situation any better lol, but i wouldn't say its only a thing women go through in having this mental load. It may be the societal norm for women to have these tasks, but writing it in this way that blames men for it existing isn't really true. There are increasing numbers of men that are stay-at-home dads, or maybe are carers for someone etc, who would have the same mental load as this.
 

neverendingmidi

it just goes on and on and on and on...
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i wouldn't say it's fake, but it's not a given. In any relationship, societal norms or not, you can divide up tasks and making it the 'woman's job' to go shopping is something that will only begin to change if people begin to make an effort to change it. Dad here had no idea what to buy etc, but if in doing that he gets moaned at and berated for being exceptional and not knowing everything someone usually buys, he won't make the effort to learn how to do it in the future. Things like navigating a grocery store and knowing what to get can be made easier by keeping a shopping list and just going more frequently. Shops change layouts all the time here, so learning the way around your local store won't do you much good for long lol.
It has to be a joint effort, and obviously saph doing absolutely nothing to help doesn't make the situation any better lol, but i wouldn't say its only a thing women go through in having this mental load. It may be the societal norm for women to have these tasks, but writing it in this way that blames men for it existing isn't really true. There are increasing numbers of men that are stay-at-home dads, or maybe are carers for someone etc, who would have the same mental load as this.
For years it's been my dad who does the shopping for my parents, mostly because my mother loathes grocery shopping. Like serious levels of hate. On the other hand she does a lot of the cleaning. Cooking is split.

It just takes negotiation and actually talking to each other.
 

PolexiaAphrodisia

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i wouldn't say it's fake, but it's not a given. In any relationship, societal norms or not, you can divide up tasks and making it the 'woman's job' to go shopping is something that will only begin to change if people begin to make an effort to change it. Dad here had no idea what to buy etc, but if in doing that he gets moaned at and berated for being exceptional and not knowing everything someone usually buys, he won't make the effort to learn how to do it in the future. Things like navigating a grocery store and knowing what to get can be made easier by keeping a shopping list and just going more frequently. Shops change layouts all the time here, so learning the way around your local store won't do you much good for long lol.
It has to be a joint effort, and obviously saph doing absolutely nothing to help doesn't make the situation any better lol, but i wouldn't say its only a thing women go through in having this mental load. It may be the societal norm for women to have these tasks, but writing it in this way that blames men for it existing isn't really true. There are increasing numbers of men that are stay-at-home dads, or maybe are carers for someone etc, who would have the same mental load as this.
For years it's been my dad who does the shopping for my parents, mostly because my mother loathes grocery shopping. Like serious levels of hate. On the other hand she does a lot of the cleaning. Cooking is split.

It just takes negotiation and actually talking to each other.
It's not a hard and fast law of nature or anything. It just describes a relatively common phenomenon. There are varying shades, and of course it can be solved through cooperative talking and mindfulness, just like 99% of societal tradition bullshit.