Another big strike of course is that she feels entitled to be with an attractive man with a normal BMI. The best she could really do was a guy who could barely hide his preference for cock. So she doesn’t even want to be in the same league because of some HAES nonsense.I want to buy this fat, black lady a cake of her choice like, right now.
She's got four huge strikes against her on the dating market, before you even get to the worst aspects of her personality.
She's massively fat. Nobody wants that but feeders and fetishists.
She's a single mom. Even fit, attractive single moms have a hard time finding men willing to date them, much less commit. On top of that, she's a shitty mother to the kids she's got, and should not be birthing any more (given her weight), so any decent man who thinks he might want to have kids, or is looking for a good stepmom for his own kids, is going to reject her on that basis. There are plenty of sweet, chubby, younger women with the potential to be good moms out there; Tessie ain't one of them.
She's effectively homeless, and unemployed. If she was making enough money to pay rent on even a tiny place, she would be doing exactly that for the sake of her kids, but she's not. That means she is probably also deep in debt and has a shit credit rating. She's financially unstable and irresponsible, and who wants to hitch himself to that? Again, if he likes fat chicks, there are plenty of younger, nicer ones out there who hold down jobs, pay their bills, and successfully keep a roof over their own damned heads.
She's a washed-up minor celebrity, still trying to play the fame game. Anybody in the LA area she might conceivably accept as a suitable dating partner is going to know exactly what a disaster that is, and stay the fuck away. The only exception would be somebody equally as Narcissistic and fame-hungry, but less well-known, who would use her minor fame to gain exposure for himself, ditching her the moment it was expedient to do so.
And yeah, I'm saying "he" when referring to these hypothetical partners, because that's what she's after.
Her jowls are developing nicely. I'm amazed she posted this pic.
So she has set herself up to fail. There’s no light at the end of the tunnel in terms of getting stable employment, losing the weight, or anything other than continuing to be a dumpster fire posting woke shit on her Instagram. She may talk about therapy and self care but she’s the type of girl who will drop everything for the next guy she likes. She already dropped one kid, the other is as good as gone if she thinks it’ll help her snag a guy who meets her wildly unrealistic expectations.