I've been away for a couple of weeks, I coped by believing I could give it another shot. I took my best Tinder pics yet and average 2 matches a day now. I had a date a couple of days ago and it was humiliating. I'm not looking for a hook up, I'm looking for something serious. And that is what women HATE. Although they won't admit it, they want to feel like a man can't wait to fuck her brains out.
While getting to know this girl, I learned she's very serious, and I loved it. No typical stacy, though she was good looking. I was honestly interested in her and we had a great time. In the end she confronted me with a brutal black pill: She found me good looking, but she felt I was distant (lie, she means I wasn't escalating) and missed the connection because I didn't flirt (truth). At that point, I dropped the bomb on her. I told her this is why women cry they only can get sex, and men only want sex. Because they want to have it all here and now. I PURPOSELY didn't flirt, because it leads to a hook up, and I had a few and if there's one thing that doesn't lead to a serious commitment it's a hook up. After that I said: "So, did you want me to ask you if you want to come home with me? Because that hasn't lead to anything serious.". And she fucking answered: Welllll, not anymore", implying she would've been open to it if I flirted my way through.
So here you have it, there are no different kind of women. If there were, this was the kind who would've appreciated my reasoning for not flirting openly. They want it all here and know. Personality doesn't matter. I could've acted like a no brain imbecile only interested in baseball and with stupid sexual games I'd taken her home. She was my looksmatch, but that doesn't matter if you still don't offer sex. Am I a volcel? Probably, but this is next level ldar-inducing pain. This girl was as close as you can get to a serious girl and all she wants in the end is to be a stacy. Even worse: she mentioned I think to deep about life. I hate this degenerate generation. It seems I must return to trying to get a hookup only. FML
While getting to know this girl, I learned she's very serious, and I loved it. No typical stacy, though she was good looking. I was honestly interested in her and we had a great time. In the end she confronted me with a brutal black pill: She found me good looking, but she felt I was distant (lie, she means I wasn't escalating) and missed the connection because I didn't flirt (truth). At that point, I dropped the bomb on her. I told her this is why women cry they only can get sex, and men only want sex. Because they want to have it all here and now. I PURPOSELY didn't flirt, because it leads to a hook up, and I had a few and if there's one thing that doesn't lead to a serious commitment it's a hook up. After that I said: "So, did you want me to ask you if you want to come home with me? Because that hasn't lead to anything serious.". And she fucking answered: Welllll, not anymore", implying she would've been open to it if I flirted my way through.
So here you have it, there are no different kind of women. If there were, this was the kind who would've appreciated my reasoning for not flirting openly. They want it all here and know. Personality doesn't matter. I could've acted like a no brain imbecile only interested in baseball and with stupid sexual games I'd taken her home. She was my looksmatch, but that doesn't matter if you still don't offer sex. Am I a volcel? Probably, but this is next level ldar-inducing pain. This girl was as close as you can get to a serious girl and all she wants in the end is to be a stacy. Even worse: she mentioned I think to deep about life. I hate this degenerate generation. It seems I must return to trying to get a hookup only. FML
