The unofficial venting thread. - What are you pissed off with at the moment?

[Mr. Poker in the Front Liquor in the Rear]

I feel like we need a thread to let out our daily frustrations in our lives.

Lost 500 dollars of my hard earned money on online poker this past month. I am on the biggest downswing of my life in gambling. Going to take a break from it all together and focus on other things in my life at the moment. The guilt trip of losing that kind of money feels absolutely fucking terrible.


Vent away, Kiwis!

 

[RG 448]

The past few nights at the shelter I’ve been repeatedly forgetting our safe word, and one of the old-timers lost the cuff keys so I had to use the last of the butter to slip out of them.. The marks on my neck and wrists have gotten so bad that family and friends are asking questions I’m not prepared to answer.

 

[skiddlez]

I was driving last night and I saw a group of like 5 deer so I swerved to hit them but I only got like 3.

 

[ES 148]

@Tetraphobia wont

 

[D.Va]

Some idiot keeps spending money on my gambling site and he really sucks at poker and it's starting to piss me off

 

[Lez]

I can't see my forehead.

 

[gumboman]

i am out of cigarate reeeeeeeeeeeerr

 

[Derp Potato]

I want mint tea, but that requires cleaning my coffee cup and I just don't feel like it.

 

[LagoonaBlue]

Why do raisins exist? They're gross.

Fite me.

 

[The Great Chandler]

Female black customers are the pickiest.

 

[Derp Potato]

Update, I ended up cleaning the cup.

 

[Tetra]

I am in a good place in life, got pretty much nothing to be mad or venting about.
Everything is in order for now because somethings probably gonna come up in a month or so and then my little house of cards will collapse

@Tetraphobia wont

what?? Want me to vent about that fucking white blinking line under your pfp?
or your lack of a duckie frend?

 

[ES 148]

I am in a good place in life, got pretty much nothing to be mad or venting about.
Everything is in order for now because somethings probably gonna come up in a month or so and then my little house of cards will collapse






what?? Want me to vent about that fucking white blinking line under your pfp?
or your lack of a duckie frend?

Vent yourseld

 

[QT 219]

I did something permanently stupid because I was temporarily angry. I can't take it back and every moment I live is an unrelenting surrealist nightmare.

 

[Slap47]

Subbed to a game a few months ago and unsubbed on their website. Then I emailed them after they charged me for an extra month and they paid me back for that month.

They're an incompetent company and kept charging me anyway and now I'm out 50 bucks.

 

[REGENDarySumanai]

Still no luck finding a job in my field, and still no luck finding a job out of my field. Doesn't help that my job history is atrocious.

 

[Nazi vegeta]

Some idiot keeps spending money on my gambling site and he really sucks at poker and it's starting to piss me off

Wouldnt that be free money?

 

[NARPASSWORD]

Life

 

[AlpacaNextOne]

I didn't want to make a new thread so, for my first post, I will give this a try. Why do people suck? Have you ever found out a friend of about 10 years lies to you on a daily basis? I'll try to share my story as best I can. This is kind of a bromance story. No homo.

Around five years ago I moved in with a friend. We were already friends for 4ish years and hung out pretty regularly. We both never finished college and were still living in the town. We met in a party house setting and even ran one together for about a year while actually in college. After six months of living with him outside the distractions of running a madhouse, I start noticing when he's lying. My bullshit detector is really good when I don't let my brain get in the way. He kept partying more than I did. I didn't care. He started not telling me about what he was doing, who he was seeing, stuff like that. I brushed it off at first. I told myself it was none of my business. I let him do what he wanted like a friend is supposed to.

As 1-2 years go by we both got full time jobs and worked. Every so often I would get home to nobody around. I'd call my roommate/growing best friend. He's busy hanging out with people. He's at a beach about 10 miles away. Says he'll be back in a few hours. No invite. Kind of hurts. Stuff like that starts happening more and more. I suck it up because I'm a dude.

Another 1-2 years go by. We moved to middle of nowhere town. No other friends for miles. Roommate/best friend goes to old college town to mutual friends graduation and didn't tell me until he was gone and I was at work. He said it was spur of the moment. I had my doubts.

I couldn't take it anymore. I tried to confront my roommate. All I could get out was "why don't you tell me anything?" before I started sobbing. He hugged me while I lost control. He said he was sorry and that he would do better. I thought he meant it. Part of me still wants to think he did. He has never really been a bad friend, but all the little lies kept building up in my head. Lies that were excluding me from aspects of my friends life. Maybe I am too selfish, or a bad friend. I'm not going to get into it but neither of us are perfect. I thought we had an understanding that he wasn't going to keep things from me. Then my bullshit detector started going off again.

Every time he gets home late from work he has random ass weird excuses for it. I didn't have any proof of lie so I betrayed his trust. I went snooping in his smart watch. All I was doing was looking for proof of lie. I didn't want to find anything. I did. When he was supposed to get off work he would call this girl every night that he was late. This was actually the second girl he was seeing that he hid from me in the last year. Is it so much to ask to share with your bro when you're getting laid? Why doesn't he trust me after all this time? Yeah I know I snooped. I wouldn't have if I wasn't so good at bullshit detecting.

I am having a really rough time with this. I don't want to end our friendship. I can't keep living with someone that doesn't respect or trust me enough to tell me what is going on in his life. I feel like every friend I have ever had has abandoned me. I'm not perfect, and I know I can be a dick sometimes, but I would prefer my supposed best friend would just tell me the truth. If the truth was that I'm a sperg faggot that's too much to live with, at least I could move on. I don't think I've ever been this sad and it is really fucking with my head.

Thanks for reading if you made it this far. You can commence to calling me a faggot now.

 

[JM 590]

I didn't want to make a new thread so, for my first post, I will give this a try. Why do people suck? Have you ever found out a friend of about 10 years lies to you on a daily basis? I'll try to share my story as best I can. This is kind of a bromance story. No homo.

Around five years ago I moved in with a friend. We were already friends for 4ish years and hung out pretty regularly. We both never finished college and were still living in the town. We met in a party house setting and even ran one together for about a year while actually in college. After six months of living with him outside the distractions of running a madhouse, I start noticing when he's lying. My bullshit detector is really good when I don't let my brain get in the way. He kept partying more than I did. I didn't care. He started not telling me about what he was doing, who he was seeing, stuff like that. I brushed it off at first. I told myself it was none of my business. I let him do what he wanted like a friend is supposed to.

As 1-2 years go by we both got full time jobs and worked. Every so often I would get home to nobody around. I'd call my roommate/growing best friend. He's busy hanging out with people. He's at a beach about 10 miles away. Says he'll be back in a few hours. No invite. Kind of hurts. Stuff like that starts happening more and more. I suck it up because I'm a dude.

Another 1-2 years go by. We moved to middle of nowhere town. No other friends for miles. Roommate/best friend goes to old college town to mutual friends graduation and didn't tell me until he was gone and I was at work. He said it was spur of the moment. I had my doubts.

I couldn't take it anymore. I tried to confront my roommate. All I could get out was "why don't you tell me anything?" before I started sobbing. He hugged me while I lost control. He said he was sorry and that he would do better. I thought he meant it. Part of me still wants to think he did. He has never really been a bad friend, but all the little lies kept building up in my head. Lies that were excluding me from aspects of my friends life. Maybe I am too selfish, or a bad friend. I'm not going to get into it but neither of us are perfect. I thought we had an understanding that he wasn't going to keep things from me. Then my bullshit detector started going off again.

Every time he gets home late from work he has random ass weird excuses for it. I didn't have any proof of lie so I betrayed his trust. I went snooping in his smart watch. All I was doing was looking for proof of lie. I didn't want to find anything. I did. When he was supposed to get off work he would call this girl every night that he was late. This was actually the second girl he was seeing that he hid from me in the last year. Is it so much to ask to share with your bro when you're getting laid? Why doesn't he trust me after all this time? Yeah I know I snooped. I wouldn't have if I wasn't so good at bullshit detecting.

I am having a really rough time with this. I don't want to end our friendship. I can't keep living with someone that doesn't respect or trust me enough to tell me what is going on in his life. I feel like every friend I have ever had has abandoned me. I'm not perfect, and I know I can be a dick sometimes, but I would prefer my supposed best friend would just tell me the truth. If the truth was that I'm a sperg faggot that's too much to live with, at least I could move on. I don't think I've ever been this sad and it is really fucking with my head.

Thanks for reading if you made it this far. You can commence to calling me a faggot now.

It really does suck to get excluded from activities with friends, especially when the friend you're closest to is the one actively excluding you.

Just like with romantic relationships, friendships can fall apart in similar ways, and it's one of those things guys just hate talking about because it sounds gay as hell. But it happens, sometimes subtley, sometimes explosively. If this guy feels the need to keep it from you that he's seeing a girl, and you feel the need to snoop around in his smartwatch, it's long since time for you to find a new roommate. Hell, if you feel like every friend you've ever had has abandoned you, you should take a sharp turn in your life. Do all your friends come from a single point of common interest (like, one particular community)? What do they have in common? And have you done plenty of self-examining to figure out if you just expect too much from them?