They will totally hit you with "you and I both know you hate societies rules anyway. Why did what I do bother you?"
Shit dude, I thought it was just this one guy. Nigga goes to jail for fucking a 15 year old, gets a hell of a plea deal and gets out only to violate the protective order against him by meeting up with the same bitch again. Now he wants to know why I want nothing to do with him. What he took away from my explanation was that I care too much about what people would think of me for associating with him, so he thought he could appeal to my lack of caring for society's rules, maaaaan. No, what I care about is the fact that you become like the people you spend the most time around, and being a determined fuck-up is not in my list of goals.