- Jul 2, 2021
I agree with you. Bettering yourself alone isn't going to guarantee you a girlfriend or sex and honestly shouldn't be the reason you try and improve yourself. You do need to be able to approach a girl and carry on a conversation and yeah, have the balls to ask her out or show your interest in a non-spergy way.I guess I've just talked to plenty of guys that do genuinely try to better themselves but don't allocate any time or energy to also have the balls to go after a girl a bit, or that think they have to be some finished product before they start dating (fucking).
You just need to do both. That seems the best strategy to maximize chances.
But, there's a lot of people out there who don't actually recognize, they problem is them, the way they are, the way they live. If you don't have a job, or some minimum wage job, you can't drive, you have no skills, live with your parents, spend all day playing vidya or doing other childish things, are fat, lazy and unmotivated and don't even see a problem then chances are no matter how forward you are, you're not going to be able to maintain a relationship.