You're transphobic. Apologize, and refer to her as a woman.Wait, Tom's neighbors hate him and see him as a gay man?
But he has told us time and time again that everyone he meets recognizes him as a woman. He is very adamant about this. Every single person he meets in real life can tell he is a woman. We call Tom a man. No you misanthropic maladjusted morons, everyone I meet knows I am female.
But the neighbor sees him as just some old gay balding drag queen.
I guess the truth comes out. People he knows in real life don't think Tom is a woman. He doesn't pass. He is a man.