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Well I'll be damned, Venus has a real job! Bookkeeping is a great, real, normal job to have. She doesn't really need an advanced degree to do it as long as she doesn't work for a giant corporation, and if she likes it she can always do night school for her CPA.

I hope she realizes she could do bookkeeping full time, and that the therapy helps her gtfo of this relationship with her most recent pimp wannabe dude.
 

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Well I'll be damned, Venus has a real job! Bookkeeping is a great, real, normal job to have. She doesn't really need an advanced degree to do it as long as she doesn't work for a giant corporation, and if she likes it she can always do night school for her CPA.

I hope she realizes she could do bookkeeping full time, and that the therapy helps her gtfo of this relationship with her most recent pimp wannabe dude.
I was assuming the “booking keeping on the side”meant tracking her OF income, paying back expenses for renting the love hotels and props, then splitting the profits with her friend...or helping the friend manage his other enterprises.

I could be totally wrong but she doesn’t strike me as the first person someone in Japan would trust with tracking their finances. I could see her boyfriend giving her that task though.
 

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Here’s the rest of the onlyfans Q&A. Looks like she’ll be uploading a new video soon. Last screenshot is her talking about her mental health a little. Unsurprisingly, it’s a clusterfuck of cluster b.

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This is the most interesting one to me. Do any of you have experience with those medications or cranial topography? The topography thing kind of sounds like when the Nazis would measure peoples heads so that they could justify hating Jews and loving themselves...

I’m not shocked that she has problems with dissociating. I can def see her having ADHD on top of her BPD. Not to powerlevel, but I have some ex-friends who have BPD and her online behavior falls right in line with theirs. The mood swings, the need for attention, the black and white thinking, she’s a classic cluster B personality. I’m not friends with them anymore because their untreated BPD became intolerable. I hope that if her weird camera man dumps her like everyone else has that she’ll be further along in therapy and be able to handle it :optimistic: BPD people are prone to self harm and have a hard time getting out of depressive states. I know Venus has already posted about wanting to kill herself on twitter in an attempt to get attention from fans. Hard to say if any future times she claims sui are gonna be fake outs for attention too since she’s already cried Wolf
 
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So Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families is a pretty specific thing, it's related to adult children of alcoholics which is a spin off of the infamous Alcoholics Anonymous. It's a twelve step program.
Thats not "psychotherapy" at all as that's not how it works. It would be an untrained sponsor to help her work through the 12 step, going to groups, reading the literature. Unless she's just misusing this very specific phrase.
 
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I'm not an expert in Japanese culture, but I know that they have a pretty traditional society. The man works and earns the cash, and the woman takes care of the household, the kids, and does the finances. When she's saying she is doing bookkeeping on the side, I doubt that means she went to a job interview and got a "normal" job where she has to be in the office at 8 AM from Monday to Friday. Her creep photographer she is probably also fucking is likely letting her keep track of their finances, that's it.

The jobs she has mentioned as "alternatives" to OF have got to be a joke. Investing requires a ton of research and knowledge (and, you know, money to invest), she's never even shown an interest in coding and illustration, and even if you are talented it will take years to become good enough to earn some money off it, and I already explained in depth while she would not be suitable for translating either. I hate how she is encouraging the young teenage girls in her fanbase to fuck up their lives for a quick buck. She has literally no experience or education, and on top of that she's attached her real name to her sex work account where she liveblogs her mental breakdowns every other week. She could maybe flip burgers, that's it. Her only saving grace is that most of her porn is all in English so a Japanese employer might not be able to find it, but she's also started tweeting about it in Japanese, so I really don't know anymore.

I doubt she is seeing an actual therapist. The Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families thing is more of a support group, and Venus claimed that her therapist is on board with her getting naked on OF, which leads me to believe that they are not real. She still seems laser focused on being able to slap a label on herself and finding out which disorder she has. First it was BPD, then ADHD, then bipolar and now we are back at BPD. It doesn't really matter. What matters is being honest with your therapist, figuring out together why you're so distressed, and analyzing and re-learning unhealthy coping mechanisms. Most therapists are not going to directly diagnose you with a personality disorder anyways, because most people don't want to hear that and will stop going to therapy. Even if two people suffer from the same issue, they might have completely different symptoms and be in completely different situations. Just look at people suffering from depression: symptoms range from insomnia to excessive sleeping, and from weight gain to weight loss. Doesn't really matter all that much what you have, what matters is getting better.

Do any of you have experience with those medications or cranial topography? The topography thing kind of sounds like when the Nazis would measure peoples heads so that they could justify hating Jews and loving themselves...
I don't know about the medications, nor have I had personal experiences with brain scans, but it is absolutely possible to detect certain issues on a scan like that. Psychopathy is one example. She definitely has a personality disorder, and this should also be reflected in her brain structure.
 

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I don't know about the medications, nor have I had personal experiences with brain scans, but it is absolutely possible to detect certain issues on a scan like that. Psychopathy is one example. She definitely has a personality disorder, and this should also be reflected in her brain structure.
Oooh that makes more sense, stuff like seeing if she has an enlarged amygdala and shit. I’ve seen the brain scans of people with depression vs a healthy brain in some textbooks. I’m really dumb and didn’t even consider that they might do something like that outside of scientific studies. I was thinking more along the lines of phrenology lol.

I wonder what she had to tell her doctor to make them order a brain scan for her. That sounds so drastic.

ETA: here are some short descriptions on how her meds work/what they do. It sounds like she’s on them to help her impulse control. If she does have BPD, medication is only going to help it a little bit. People with BPD can only truly overcome it with extensive therapy.

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Oooh that makes more sense, stuff like seeing if she has an enlarged amygdala and shit. I’ve seen the brain scans of people with depression vs a healthy brain in some textbooks. I’m really dumb and didn’t even consider that they might do something like that outside of scientific studies. I was thinking more along the lines of phrenology lol.
I'm sure it's a really useful albeit costly diagnostic tool. Mental health professionals rely a lot on self-reporting to figure out what your issues are and how they can be treated, but not everybody is self-aware or honest enough to give a realistic self-description. Not many people would admit that they are having a hard time empathizing with other people because that kind of paints you in a very bad light, but you would be able to tell immediately with a brain scan if the areas of the brain that are responsible for empathy are not quite as developed as they should be.
 

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Here’s her latest idea for OnlyFans
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Boiling sausages takes like 5 minutes (unless homemade sausages means she's actually going to stuff sausages on cam), making an Omelette takes 10 minutes and cutting up a bunch of veggies and dressing them with oil and vinegar shouldn't take much longer than 7 minutes either. And that's if you make all these things separately, if you know how to multi-task you'll finish even faster. So basically she will pretend to be useless on cam, and pretend like 10 seconds of vibrator action will give her an orgasm each time someone tips her. I predict lots of cringe and Hentai moans.
 

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I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about how or for whom Venus is a bookkeeper, she often overstates things. Like her business with an office! and employees!

If she is actually taking the medications listed, I'm glad she's on strattera and not something like adderall, given that the lack of appetite side effect is basically an ED aid.

Unfortunately, I don't see great things in Venus' future where therapy is involved. It'll take a really good therapist to get through to her. When kids grow up in chaos, they learn implicitly or explicitly to hide the truth from everyone and put up a good front. This becomes habit till the point that it becomes a default part of someone's psychology. That will be her instinct in therapy, to acknowledge she has certain feelings, but as soon as it gets too probing, she will discontinue. She probably doesn't even realize that she's running from being transparent about her life because that was a lesson drummed into her head since childhood. A therapist would have to start off by explaining to her these feelings, and validate them, while also trying to break down the walls that feel so wrong to venus to let down. And if a therapist gets that far with her, they'll never see her again because she'll be so freaked out about he bare vulnerability. She's got a tough road ahead of her if she wants to get healthy, it will probably take decades. Hopefully therapy will catch up to her before hard living does.
 

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When kids grow up in chaos, they learn implicitly or explicitly to hide the truth from everyone and put up a good front. This becomes habit till the point that it becomes a default part of someone's psychology. That will be her instinct in therapy, to acknowledge she has certain feelings, but as soon as it gets too probing, she will discontinue. She probably doesn't even realize that she's running from being transparent about her life because that was a lesson drummed into her head since childhood.
I somehow feel like it's the opposite for her. She's learned that the poor me act is her get out of jail free card and she's abusing it every time she gets a chance.
In the Q&A she said that the hospital where she got her infamous brain scan did not accept her as a patient because they were not equipped to deal with "severe trauma". Yes her childhood was less than stellar, and child abuse absolutely can cause prolonged stress and make you develop unhealthy coping mechanisms to deal with your own feelings, but when I think of severe trauma, I think of war vets, kidnapping victims, concentration camp survivors or people who caused car crashes that killed other people. You know, the kind of stuff that makes it hard to manage day-to-day life because every tiny thing might give you a panic attack, and you ACTUALLY want to die because of survivor's guilt. Not posting "uwu I'm going to kill myself" when you're having a bad day to sympathy bait. Childhood trauma is quite different from traumatic events in childhood, because c-PTSD symptoms are usually very similar to BPD. So I don't know why she doesn't call her trauma what it is: Prolonged child abuse.

She also talks about herself as if she spent her childhood locked inside a room, "no friends" etc. The truth is that she was only homeschooled for 2 years. Obviously you won't be able to have lasting friendships if you move around all the time, and you probably also can't have any of your school friends over/go to their place with a mother like Margaret, but you absolutely CAN develop relationships with others and learn how to socialize appropriately. Venus even used to write blog posts about her school friends in Tenerife, but now that she's an adult she claims that she had no friends growing up to make people pity her.

Instead of investing her energy into getting better, she hides behind her issues.
 

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Very weird clip from Venus livestream.
Here someone on the other farms discussing what went on in the stream:
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So she has a pimp after all. That's fucking depressing. She'd be perfectly able to do OF on her own and does not need him. His camerawork is shitty, she could research content ideas by herself and he just contributes nothing overall, apart from I guess "encouraging" her to make more content. I don't understand why she lets herself be slapped around instead of doing something by herself for once.