'd say they both need to see a therapist but then that would lead to them both possibly losing weight and then that leads to possibly joining society which involves being accountable and selfless sometimes. Right now they both are just trying to convince themselves and others they are productive cause they woke up before 3pm to take the cat to the vet and buying lightbulbs.
Seeing a therapist would never result in Amber losing weight or changing in any positive way. She has a personality disorder. “Point, blank, period.” These people don’t change. If they go to therapy, they will spew out the narrative their fucked up brain thinks is true. Any push back or reality check from the therapist wouldn’t go down well.