What do you guys think of kink and the kink community? -

[sweet-cereal-killer]

As someone who's been around that community for a while I'd like to know what's your raw, uncensored opinion on such things.

To be honest, they all look quite insane, insecure, deluded and elitistic. I could be wrong, maybe I've been to the wrong communities, etc etc

Here's a weird little gem.

r/FemdomCommunity - [NSFW] Does anyone like taking care of and maintaining penises?

71 votes and 20 comments so far on Reddit

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Do kinky people ever outgrow their kinks? Do any stable relationships ever happen from this?

They love the word "healthy" to describe the most bizarre things, always going on about "connection" and how wonderful their relationships are only for things to fall apart in some dramatic blowout or the other.

I feel like I can't get any honest sane opinion anywhere else because whenever I try it is quickly met with the usual -isms, identity politics nonsense, more delusion, and no one actually explaining anything.

 

[MediocreMilt]

Two in the pink, one in the stink. All you need, really.

 

[the real heisenberg]

I support it. Just don't put a toothbrush in my cock you crazy bitches.

 

[Bessie]

Ours is a kink-shaming community. Doesn't matter if you're into the most vanilla, conventional stuff. Doesn't matter if you're "asexual" or "pansexual". We will mock you.

 

[WhoBusTank69]

Probably the most mentally fucked up people on the internet and each in desperate need of therapy.

 

[Large]

ICD-10 Version:2016

ICD-10 Online contains the ICD-10 (International Classification of Diseases 10th Revision)

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The DSM Diagnostic Criteria for Fetishism

The historical definitions of sexual Fetishism are reviewed. Prior to the advent of DSM-III-R (American Psychiatric Association, 1987), Fetishism was typically operationally described as persistent preferential sexual arousal in association with non-living objects, an over-inclusive focus on...

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[YayLasagna]

Yes, you can outgrow them over time for various reasons such as bad experience. Puberty typically has this happen to you a lot especially.
No I wouldn't call sticking a toothbrush down the pisshole healthy, but that's just me I guess.

For someone who claims to be around kink communities for so long this OP reads a lot like this is the first time you're learning about people doing weird things in the bedroom.
Granted, reading that Reddit post makes me feel like I'm inside a psychopath's head. Maybe you're just looking at the worst you can find.

 

[ES 195]

Ours is a kink-shaming community. Doesn't matter if you're into the most vanilla, conventional stuff. Doesn't matter if you're "asexual" or "pansexual". We will mock you.

Public handholders should be tar and feathered.

 

[Pvt. Shitpost]

Shes gonna ruin this mans penis.

 

[Colours of Africa]

What men need to know is that Trent is a man who has an anus, simply. Men of Africa know of the pleasures of Trent. Sometimes the man Magenta does not allow any anus for other men but this is an anus that needs many cock and even Magenta the man who loves anus can give it all pleasures

 

[The Manglement]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to do weird sex stuff. There is something wrong with turning it into an 'identity' and a 'community' and endlessly promoting it online, showing everyone all your weird fucking shit.

 

[PL 001]

I think most people have a kink or a fetish. If all you're into is basic vanilla Missionary position, you're pretty damn boring.

Most people also have the common sense to not broadcast their kinks online or in public for everyone to hear. The deviants that do are usually the ones interested in the sick and twisted shit no normal person wants anything to do with.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

For someone who claims to be around kink communities for so long this OP reads a lot like this is the first time you're learning about people doing weird things in the bedroom.
Granted, reading that Reddit post makes me feel like I'm inside a psychopath's head. Maybe you're just looking at the worst you can find.

Oh man, I've read a bit of everything. It's just that I've either read only hard facts like scientific articles (many of which biased), kink being praised as the best thing ever by kinky people themselves with no room for disagreement, or puritans who think everything sexual is evil. I'm looking for different opinions.

 

[Dom Cruise]

People who get too far removed from the basics of sexuality, like boobs, butts, cocks, pussies and good old cock in the pussy, basically the more non-sexual a thing is sexual to you (like say feet or... balloons) the less I understand it.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

Shes gonna ruin this mans penis.

What penis?

 

[Casey0714]

All things in moderation. It's alright to have a few kinks but it should always be understood that kinks are not to be made normalized in public society. If you want to play out some fetishized fantasy with like-minded individuals in private, that's fine but going out into public getting offended that other people find your kinks obscene is crossing a line.

The kink community is a bit mixed. For some, it's a place to go and enjoy a little bit of freedom from the stress of everyday life with their indulgences but the community itself tends to be toxic to outsiders who do not support it. Unfortunately, such communities tend to attract the easily manipulated people and they get caught up into a cultural spiral trying to gain more and more affection from within the community while making themselves more and more cringy to normal people.

 

[break these cuffs]

Degenerates

 

[NOT Sword Fighter Super]

Stop being such a bigot, yo.

 

[YayLasagna]

Oh man, I've read a bit of everything. It's just that I've either read only hard facts like scientific articles (many of which biased), kink being praised as the best thing ever by kinky people themselves with no room for disagreement, or puritans who think everything sexual is evil. I'm looking for different opinions.

Do whatever you want as long as
A. Does not hurt anyone but you (or your partner if that's their thing)
B. Does not cause permanent damage.
C. Does not involve animals and children.
I personally feel all of the above are a requirement for anything I'd consider 'healthy.' D is optional but my favorite, which is

D. I get to poke fun at you for it as much as I damn well please

 

[NOT Sword Fighter Super]

Do whatever you want as long as
A. Does not hurt anyone but you (or your partner if that's their thing)
B. Does not cause permanent damage.
C. Does not involve animals and children.
I personally feel all of the above are a requirement for anything I'd consider 'healthy.' D is optional but my favorite, which is

D. I get to poke fun at you for it as much as I damn well please

That last part is the most important.
Especially for tards that love to flaunt it.