What is the peak nostalgic period of your life? -

Dom Cruise

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Had a few thoughts to share on nostalgia I was thinking about.

When we talk about nostalgia we talk about two things I think, nostalgia for society as a whole and pop culture, but there's also personal nostalgia, where your life was at, the funny thing is sometimes these things can be contradictory, you may be nostalgic for the pop culture for the era when your personal life may not have been so good or you may be nostalgic for an era where the pop culture wasn't good or where society had some real problems but your personal life was in a good place.

There's another layer when it comes to pop culture where there's nostalgia for an era you personally lived through and can remember or an era from before you were born or your memory.

So for some examples from my life, pop culture wise, for an era I lived through and can remember, just about peak nostalgia for me is late fall 2001, 2002 and 2003.

Part of that was just my age I think, I was 12/13 for most of that time and the pop culture when your that age is special to you, namely what really got me hyped was the video games and anime of that era, fall of 2001 is when Adult Swim launched and the first time I saw Cowboy Bebop, one of my all time fav animes, fall of 2001 is also when the original Xbox, the GameCube and a slew of classic PS2 titles released like Silent Hill 2, Metal Gear Solid 2 and Grand Theft Auto 3.

Moving on into 2002 and 2003 my growing interesting in games and anime continued and it was all so fresh and exciting to me, I think that is also why that era is special to me.

The irony though is that I went through some rough personal issues at that time and of course this was also the post 9/11 era and the start of the Iraq war, so it both wasn't a great time for my personal life or for society as a whole, but still, there are a lot of happy memories which I'm thankful for.

It makes me wish I had a time machine and could some how "fix" that era to make it something more worthy of nostalgia without any bitter irony.

I think my point is the old standby of always looking on the bright side, sometimes things can just be a matter of perspective and things aren't as bad as you think they are or there's some silver lining you're missing.

But this is why I standby 2005-2007 being my favorite years because that was when I found both the pop culture interesting and my personal life was in a good place.


For some examples of some other things I'm talking about, there's the years 2009-2010, I thought pop culture at the time was mostly lame, but I was in a good place in my life back then, I look back on those years with increasing fondness now.

And finally for nostalgia for an era I didn't live to see personally, I've always been a huge, huge fan of 1980s culture, even though I was born right at the tail end of the decade, so it's not an era I can personally remember.


It would be easy to say my childhood
It is easy and while I certainly have plenty of happy memories from my childhood and I'm of course very thankful for that, what brings things down a bit is I lost both my maternal grandparents at a pretty young age, my grandfather when I had just turned 8 and my grandmother when I was 10, I always wish I could have spent more time with them.

I also had a hard time adjusting to school, not gonna lie.

And finally there's also just the simple fact that the end of the 90s was now well over 20 years ago, that's a long time and I'd be lying if I said my memories weren't starting to get a bit fuzzy, which is a real bummer, my memories of my teen years are simply much more vivid.

Still, I have no shortage of cherished memories I'll never forget and I'm very thankful for that.

The 90s. I'd give anything to go back.
The 90s really was an incredibly remarkable time, for a large percentage of the world (not everywhere of course) I would say it was literally among the peaks throughout all of human history, we just really were set to achieve something great in the 21st century, then it all came tumbling down, at least for now.
 

L50LasPak

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I suppose I dont have any. That's not to say every period of my life was bad or even difficult, but I can't think of any where there wasn't some kind of looming shadow over the whole thing. The doom and gloom of being a kid and being powerless gave way to the doom and gloom of public school gave way to the doom and gloom of college life which gave way to the doom and gloom of having a bunch of shitty jobs, with the good times being few and far between.

A common thread everyone's nostalgic periods all seem to have (at least judging by this thread) is that people weren't worried about the future, or weren't as worried about the future. I suppose I've always had trouble getting my mind off my future.
 

Spunt

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For me it's undoubtedly the mid-late 90's and early 2000s, when I left my teens and entered adulthood. The end of grunge and the beginning of Nu-metal before it got stupid. The golden age of PC gaming before consoles took over and modern AAA tropes became a thing. X-Files, Jurassic Park, the golden years of the English Premier League. I'm of the opinion that your musical tastes, and other things that are important to nostalgia, tend to be set in stone from your mid-teens to your mid-twenties. After that, it's harder (but not impossible) to like new music, new technology, new art. My mum was vocally of the opinion that all music recorded after about 1972 was "heavy metal", even including things like Radiohead. My mum was 23 in 1972, so it checks out.

I'm trying not to become my parents and appreciate new things, and I do like some of it, but I'm increasingly of the opinion that 90% of movies, TV shows, music and video games released these days are fucking awful. Either these things really have got worse (the woke plague is evidence that maybe they objectively have) or I'm just a crusty old boomer like my parents.
 

Scolopendra Dramatica

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Nostalgic...? Man, I hated being a kid, hated being a teen, didn't enjoy most of my twenties and now that I've finally got the hang of this living business I find myself situated in clown world.

I'm nostalgic for my grandmothers description of the seventies or for being a tree faring species again.
 

AssRock

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94 - 96, before getting stuck in Canada's festering asshole for the majority of my life and all of my leaving plans being foiled by life/circumstance.

One moment I'm happily sitting on the couch watching The Lion King or hanging out with my best friends, the next it's living in a rundown frozen wasteland where everyone hates everyone and nothing ever improves because anyone who complains is told that if they don't like it, just move away. Violent crime is as high as ever, people are afraid of getting stabbed downtown, and everywhere you look there's homeless people begging for money and/or shooting up or taking over entire bus shelters to turn into residences.

The worst schools in Canada are here, healthcare is a joke that keeps getting budget cuts because the premier doesn't give a damn about anyone but his buddies. Nevermind that the chucklefucks in this province voted him in twice. So they can complain more?
 

AtheistWestonChandler

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Two times really;
Being with a girlfriend I had when I was 18. I don't want her back exactly, just miss how happy I was that summer.
The second was my mid twenties when I moved from my shit village into a bigger city and it was in another country where the welfare was enough to live of so I was happy doing nothing but not starving.
I was then bored out of my skull for three years on a work placement.
It's over now but my social life is gone thanks to Covid.
Hopefully that'll be back soon.
 

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