My dream is to kill op.
Be lucky you don't live in a hellhole 120F/48C desert.Realistic dream - I'd like to move out of state. I fucking hate Oregon anymore.
What's stopping me - I have a pretty good job, own my home, have a nice group of friends and I help financially assist a family member who can no longer care for herself. Part of it is obligation to that family member, part of it is because I feel I've got a pretty good life and tell/convince myself there's no need to pull stakes and move. Still would like to get out though.