where to go to now? - life advice shit

[Panzerkampfwagen VI Tiger]

i havent gotten anywhere, no ambition or will to do something or learn anything. i know what to do but i can never get to it, too much work. the world has just got nothing interesting in it anymore. what is it i don't see? there must be one single thought, or action, that just brings it all together. what do i do?

 

[Big Bad Wart]

You are blind to the fact that you are a nihilistic Faggot so you can say something like " the world has just got nothing interesting in it anymore" unironically.

There probably won't be anything that brings it all together at once get therapy, explore more, and learn to live.

or you can just neck yourself. (In case you're a retard I'm being facetious)

 

[Neferpitou!]

Here's something that might help.

Actually this might help you more, now that I think about it.

 

[hotcheetospuffs]

I used to fight with my boyfriend because he was like you. No job, no education, no car, lived with parents. Eventually, everyone became tired of his helplessness, his well-being dependant on me. Then he broke up with me for bringing it up all the time. I felt kinda bad, but he brought his situation upon himself for fucking up so much. Sucks to be you. If you don't have a criminal history you should be able to get it together eventually. In all honesty, no one wants someones else's problems to become their own. Things are hard enough in this world without having to be a caretaker to an able-bodied adult.

 

[Raging Capybara]

I have this sensation I'm too old already and haven't lived yet, and probably never will.

I just wasted my life and the clock keeps ticking.

I used to fight with my boyfriend because he was like you. No job, no education, no car, lived with parents. Eventually, everyone became tired of his helplessness, his well-being dependant on me. Then he broke up with me for bringing it up all the time. I felt kinda bad, but he brought his situation upon himself for fucking up so much. Sucks to be you. If you don't have a criminal history you should be able to get it together eventually. In all honesty, no one wants someones else's problems to become their own. Things are hard enough in this world without having to be a caretaker to an able-bodied adult.

Did he have some sort of mental illness?

 

[Distant Stare]

50 bucks says he shoots up something

 

[Oglooger]

like, learn the teachings of Buddha or something,
Negligence is extremism

 

[hotcheetospuffs]

I have this sensation I'm too old already and haven't lived yet, and probably never will.

I just wasted my life and the clock keeps ticking.



Did he have some sort of mental illness?

yes, depression. boo fucking hoo. I mean, I've had my share of the sads, but I don't make it the burden of the state and everyone around me. KYS or get over it, is my school of thought. sorry if that's mean.

 

[The Bovinian Derivative]

While I am not the above mentioned boyfriend I was like that too, and people told me to fuck off because they got tired of my shit. Even if you are a nihilistic faggot nobody wants to hear that because others are exactly like you they just put in more effort to appear functional, I have met a lot of, and still friends with a few, well off guys who are either holding up a mask to society or worked really hard to be what we would consider normal.

What my aging ass figured out some time ago is that there's no one or big action that will change your life. Life is utterly boring for 99.9% of the people and one day you will just say fuck it and try something out, whether its getting higher education or a new job or talking to people more it doesn't matter, and life will be better, or maybe not. People will keep telling you this, as they told me, but it's something you'll have to internalize yourself and you'll just do shit. Also change is probably the scariest shit out there for normies and introverts so good luck with that too.

 

[Crankenstein]

It's mopey bullshit because you were raised in a society that taught you to want material things, but in your older age you have realized the material isn't fulfilling. You have nothing to be proud of, no god, nothing to dedicate yourself to. You are suffering "spoiled syndrome". You have no real strife or hardship, and if you think you do, it's likely some shit you've made up to be bigger than it actually is. Also, watching porn makes you not like real/normal women less, so don't do that.
Eat right, work out, find purpose in either god, a hobby, a cause, or self improvement.

 

[Win98SE]

Your brain is probably fucked up. Maybe you don't exercise, eat like shit, or are just lazy. Regardless, every weirdo nihilistic dipshit I've met has had an easy life compared to people who were way worse off and still managed to make something of themselves. You should make yourself as uncomfortable as possible via a strict schedule, hard exercise, rigid diet, and learn to appreciate life. As an aside, nobody will tell you the meaning of life because nearly everyone had to work to find out what their individual reason was. This is simplifying the process a great deal, but you get the idea - if I told you the reason I get out of bed every morning, it would be meaningless to you, or I'm guessing you'd say something like "but that's so meaningless, what about........................."

 

[some Sketchy dude]

50 bucks says he shoots up something

I'll take that bet. Too much 'woe is me' and 'what has the world become', like some faggy protagonist in a shitty French avant garde indie film. I'm guessing a bottle of sleeping pills downed with wine and a razor blade to the wrists.

 

[Crankenstein]

Your brain is probably fucked up. Maybe you don't exercise, eat like shit, or are just lazy. Regardless, every weirdo nihilistic dipshit I've met has had an easy life compared to people who were way worse off and still managed to make something of themselves. You should make yourself as uncomfortable as possible via a strict schedule, hard exercise, rigid diet, and learn to appreciate life. As an aside, nobody will tell you the meaning of life because nearly everyone had to work to find out what their individual reason was. This is simplifying the process a great deal, but you get the idea - if I told you the reason I get out of bed every morning, it would be meaningless to you, or I'm guessing you'd say something like "but that's so meaningless, what about........................."

I half agree with you, but I have to mention for anyone who may take something away from reading this. When it comes to exercise, any at all will do. Just get your ass up and out, period. A half assed set of pushups is better than none at all. Just remember to do more, better, or in less time than what you did before.

 

[Big Bad Wart]

I have this sensation I'm too old already and haven't lived yet, and probably never will.

I just wasted my life and the clock keeps ticking.

Too old? what are you 70? I've met people 60 and still living it up.

Do you feel that why or is this something people have told you? either way if this is constant and persistent feeling try going to therapy.

Also try to do a lot of grounding to better get a hang on things an not let feeling like these wash you away. (I am not a therapist so you can take what I say with a grain of salt)

edit: Try shit a lot even if you feel like shit a lot people I met are adverse to negative responses because they have been coddled. Short term negative feelings can lead to positive long term feelings.

 

[MrTroll]

my man tyler durden dropping some TRUTH BOMBS.

 

[Crankenstein]

Too old? what are you 70? I've met people 60 and still living it up.

Do you feel that why or is this something people have told you? either way if this is constant and persistent try going to therapy.

Also try to do a lot of grounding to better get a hang on things an not let feeling like these wash you away. (I am no a therapist so you can take what I say with a grain of salt)

Therapy is for folks with actual problems. I think therapy is used far too often by normies who are in a rut and don't have the self-awareness to just do better. They run to the doc before trying things, a lot of times. At least this has been my perception.

 

[Big Bad Wart]

Therapy is for folks with actual problems. I think therapy is used far too often by normies who are in a rut and don't have the self-awareness to just do better. They run to the doc before trying things, a lot of times. At least this has been my perception.

I agree but a lot of the times these things are hard to distinguish from mental illness so its better to go in and get diagnosed. I guess might have messed up I mean to go get a diagnostic not therapy.

 

[Crankenstein]

I agree but a lot of the times these things are hard to distinguish from mental illness so its better to go in and get diagnosed. I guess might have messed up I mean to go get a diagnostic not therapy.

I suppose you're right, but misdiagnosis is widespread, almost as widespread as self-diagnosis lol

 

[Samson Pumpkin Jr.]

Go to church and you will live again. Believe in Great God and everything will come together. You may feel sad right now but this is just part of God's plan, keep living until you make yourself great.

 

[Gravityqueen4life]

if you have enough energy to make a kiwi farms account just to bait suicide , you got enough energy to do something productive.