I have no idea what you mean by shit tests, but I was with a girl that was pretty constantly manipulative and gaslighted me day and night with "tests" to see how I'd react. It's honestly gross behavior. Say what you mean and take people's words on the matter, that's relationship 101.
I have no doubt you mean something else, but then don't use "shit tests" because the implication behind that phrase is the nasty, manipulative shit that girls sometimes pull instead of being open and honest. Lots of people in this thread don't seem to understand what "shit testing" actually is. It's not asking genuine questions to determine if someone respects you or not, it's being a manipulative cunt to get someone to constantly second guess themselves to the point they do what you want.
Tests/shit tests how you wanna call them, are the result of giving women all this freedom.No, testing is the result of insecurity that makes you act passive-aggressive. Talk like a regular human being and just stop dating if you can't handle a conversation. If you just talk to your partner you don't need testing.
No such thing? Jesus, I feel sorry for you.
If you dont like it, go talk to whoever made em this way.
I agree that it is always better to talk, but many women dont do that. If they are testing you, theres a reason.
And even the ones who do talk, will test you every now and then. They just cant help themselves.
Same thing with practices like ghosting. I've seen 40yo women ghost guys, instead of just telling them the truth like a proper adult and Im not talking about nutties, but regular guys.