See the problem is, is that most guys were brought up and told Women are equal to Men. So when they ask "are you going to be okay getting home on your own" and the girl says "yes yes, I'm fine" the guy will take that at face value, and then get home and get an angry call from the girl as she wanted to be walked home, but she's not going to just come out and say it.
A lot of guys these days were raised to treat Women equally, and repeatedly, they run into things that tell them the girl doesn't want a partner, she want's a Father figure that will bang her. And most guys have enough shit to keep together in their own life, and are not really interested in being a Father figure to an adult child that is financially and legally an adult.
As for me, I'm too old to relearn how women are all dumb broads like how Sean Connery is. I'm just going to avoid women whenever I can help it. It's simply too much trouble, and I'm speaking from experience in dating and relationships, not from some stupid MRA articles I read. I'm just not going to bother with the whole thing. Now I'm sure some of you have found some great women, and good on your for that. But I've been burned too many times to keep playing the game.
Personally I disagree with the assessments of how general women behave by some in this topic, although it is becoming more normalized in the behavior discussed I broil it down to two theories or reasons I believe it's happening.
1) More single mothers leads women to this passive aggressive behavior. Although most agree on this point to a degree compared to a general upbringing it leads me into :
2) Socio evolution/Women greatly influence each other. So with this great increase in women with passive aggressive tendencies it seems to broil over to women who are influencing other women. Look in education for instance and you find many of those women teaching young girls and boom. You have women being normalized to this kind of behavior. Even older women are easily influenced by younger women or the "mass of women's" personalities and traits that become popular. For better or for worse.
20 or so years ago, most women didn't behave like this. Did they test the limits of a relationship, sure, but most people on both sides do. However this shit testing nonsense didn't crop up, nor was it a common thing if it did. When I view relationships these days I see it constantly and I believe it's primarily due to #2.
Now it's become the opposite where the "independent" or "lone-wolf" girls are the more tolerant of women to be around who don't push this testing shit and the majority of women have become this annoying shit-testing-aficionado pushers. (Generally because lone-wolf women generally aren't influenced as much by other women or aren't into groups) I mean sure, 20 years ago women used to sperg out emotionally from time to time but generally it wasn't some mental game or manipulation. You calmed her down and moved on. (Yes those kind of events could be used for manipulation but often were just a tension moment or a woman hitting an emotional peak.)
It's personally why I hope it's a fad and goes away or changes because I'll have to agree with the other posters who said it wasn't healthy. In the west, though it's possible it might be spreading to Asian women as well. Which might make this fad of white men with Asian women fade soon as well. I've already heard tales of feminism starting to spread into the East. I sure hope not.
