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i dont know about that, i jack it regularly as being even a slither of horney distracts me. I dont groom myself well or put effort in the way i dress to try and obtain sex, its more a drive to be happy with the way i present myself. I guess that can be different for other people though.It's the opposite. As someone else said, excessive masturbation just makes you a passive lazy little shit. The desire to have sex is a big motivator for any healthy person. Whether people accept it or not, it's a big part of why we groom ourselves, dress nicely, work hard to obtain material possessions, etc. (especially true of men). If you are able to achieve the same gratification without engaging in the usual self-improvement practices required to attract a female, then you're just fucking yourself over and creating a situation where masturbation is going to be your only option.
Where's this pasta from?I've been trying to quit this addiction since the end of 2020. I've reaches the peak where this masturbation addiction ruined my life, it became an unhealthy lifestyle of mine.
I've tried to stop too since january 2021 until now. But I keep failing at day 3. I'll tell my latest journey doing this nofap. Btw by the time I wrote this post, I've fapped for like 4 times in a day. So, at day 1 I've passed a day without peeking, or even think to fap. Day 2, same thing, I've passed a day without fapping or peeking. I mean the main problem is peeking and horniness. So at day 3, I've tried so hard to control my mind, but I was really horny and I peeked many times. It was at the morning, I successfully coped with it. But in the afternoon, I got a big urge and decided to peek, I started to squeeze my sausage, and voila, I relapsed. I mean the same cycle happens everytime on day 3, it's failing and uncontrollable horniness. I've ever talked to someone that also does nofap, and he said was, don't think about nofap, just focus on your task and forget the fap fap. He meant that I shouldnt just focus on nofap but also focus on my daily activities and tasks. As I said before, I coped with it on day 1 and 2, I've passed those days without thinking to peek. But at day 3, I cannot cope with my lust and idk why. Any solutions?