Why is sex work being promoted as virtue? -

[Infinit3catbug]

Women especially seem very overprotective towards it, their trying so so hard to convince the world that prostitues are no different than doctors or businessmen.

I personally don’t care if some grown women wants to suck dick or show her snatch on camera in exchange for money it’s really none of my business but you can’t convince everybody that’s somehow on the same level as any other profession and you most certainly can’t convince the young girls at school that this is somehow an ok career choice with zero consequences.

Plus it’s a seedy business where it’s mostly mentally ill women with fucked up pasts that get involved and not to mention thanks to onlyfans now there are underage girls on social media talking about how they would like to sell nude pictures once they turn 18 or how human trafficking is also tied to it.

but every time someone brings this up they immediately tell you to shut up and that all of this is just propaganda from the sex negative crew or something like that, it’s weirdly similar to how trannies try to actively censor and silence people who have regretted transitioning from sharing they’re opinion.

and it’s especially weird how they are trying to portray guys who don’t want their girlfriends doing this as controlling or sexist quite the opposite it’s actually creepy to allow the women in your life to do this shit even the most open minded guys I know who support sex work say that they wouldn’t be ok with their daughter being sex worker’s themselves.

I don’t understand who is benefiting from this bullshit.

 

[ToroidalBoat]

they're addicted to the dopamine hit

That "dopamine hit" is best when it comes from making love.

But this is the infernal machine Clown World, so many can only get it from screens and pictures.

 

[TFT-A9]

One opinion I've been reading is that guys are using porn not because they're aroused, but because it's a become a coping mechanism and they're addicted to the dopamine hit.

there's only so many ways you can watch Tab A go into Slot B and have it actually be interesting enough to get Pvt. Parts standing at attention, though.

When you think about it pornography is really fucking banal.

 

[Mr. Bung]

there's only so many ways you can watch Tab A go into Slot B and have it actually be interesting enough to get Pvt. Parts standing at attention, though.

When you think about it pornography is really fucking banal.

That's how so many weird fetishes develop. People have to find other things that could arouse them when regular nudity and vanilla sex no longer work because they've become banal and no longer do the trick.

 

[ToroidalBoat]

That's how so many weird fetishes develop.

I think odd or freakish fetishes can also arise because of prudishness or censorship.

 

[DumbDude42]

I don't think porn magically makes one socially stunted. I think the socially stunted use porn because they can't get laid. And the modern world is sterilizing and isolating, pushing more people to be socially stunted. And more women becoming prostitutes going into "sex work" means more porn.

in people with low iq or low awareness, porn can absolutely do serious damage
they think porn is real sex, they think real sex is supposed to be like porn sex, they think women like being treated like porn stars are treated on screen, etc

 

[ToroidalBoat]

they think real sex is supposed to be like porn sex, they think women like being treated like porn stars are treated on screen, etc

When they can't get into relationships, those delusions can't be cleared.

 

[Spiny Rumples]

in people with low iq or low awareness, porn can absolutely do serious damage
they think porn is real sex, they think real sex is supposed to be like porn sex, they think women like being treated like porn stars are treated on screen, etc

A similar thing seems to happen with other forms of media. People learned a lot of incorrect lessons about relationships from movies and sitcoms, too.

 

[Nykysnottrans]

I like that you bring up the John factor.

I bring it up because guys online are always: "Oh, I don't wanna fuck a whore.", but do you think a self-respecting woman wants to fuck a John and expose herself to a disease vector? That's why whore-hopping is all secretive and an underground economy, because if women knew who the Johns are they would avoid them like the plague (if only to avoid catching a contemporary "plague" disease too). The fact is that you can't have your whores and your reputation too, no matter what the so-called "sex-positive" movement tells you about sex-work being respectable. No wants others to know they get paid to suck dick, and no one wants others to know they pay to get their dick sucked, period. It's all secretive and underground because the people involved know how icky it is.

 

[ToroidalBoat]

People learned a lot of incorrect lessons about relationships from movies and sitcoms, too.

I don't think having wrong ideas about relationships is always such a bad thing. But in a better world no one would be socially isolated*, so they could see any wrong ideas as wrong ideas.

*(unless they really wanted isolation)

 

[Infinit3catbug]

I bring it up because guys online are always: "Oh, I don't wanna fuck a whore.", but do you think a self-respecting woman wants to fuck a John and expose herself to a disease vector? That's why whore-hopping is all secretive and an underground economy, because if women knew who the Johns are they would avoid them like the plague (if only to avoid catching a contemporary "plague" disease too). The fact is that you can't have your whores and your reputation too, no matter what the so-called "sex-positive" movement tells you about sex-work being respectable. No wants others to know they get paid to suck dick, and no one wants others to know they pay to get their dick sucked, period. It's all secretive and underground because the people involved know how icky it is.

Interesting that you bring that up considering people have no issue defending prostitutes while throwing Johns completely under the bus.

The sex positive people have no problem calling these men gross, creepy, simps, and saying how they deserve to get their wallets drained, even most sex workers themselves would never be in a serious relationship with a John.

Well if being a whore for money is ok than how come being a John is were the line is crossed? like Null said this isn’t about normalizing sex work itself but normalizing women using men for money without having to marry or have kids with them in return.

 

[Idiotron]

I’m talking about chicks who do it for fun or to own the “evil menz“ and “patriarchy“ they are retarded and they are using it as a political tool which is really creepy.

That's what they say but women hardly ever say what they really think.
"I'm fighting the patriarchy" looks better than "I need money and showing my cunt is an easy way of getting it".