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BigUglyRetard

I'm in too deep.
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I'm losing who I thought was a good friend.

I've known this guy since 6th grade. He was an overall good friend until about last summer. It all really started when he came out to the friend group as bi. None of us honestly cared. He was our friend so we were never going to treat him differently for his sexuality. My friends and I are the heckling type so naturally, we joked about him being bi here and there. At the time, he was a good sport. Over the months he started becoming more and more interested in politics (more like political shitposting). He'd get into the voice chat ranting and raving about Donald Trump, racism, and feminism, being very rude and demeaning in the process. He also became extremely insecure about his looks, weight, diet (chicken strips and peanut butter), and, most importantly, his sexuality. Also around this time of insecurity, he stabbed one of my friends in the back (its a long story) and we were pissed at him for it. In an excellent defensive move, he told us that we all hate him because he's bi. We decided to brush this off and move on. Over the past few months, he's been nothing but aggressive and pity seeking. One thing he'd love to throw out into the group chat is the fact that his dick is small (3" when hard rip), and just say the same bullshit about how his life sucks and everybody hates him. Recently, he's decided to take a break from the friend group and says he'll be back next month. Only problem is that none of us want him back. Whenever he's around he just calls us racist and white supremacists. This is funny because the one he claims is a white supremacist the most is 100% Mexican lol.

What the hell am I supposed to do about this other than just ghost the egotistical fucker? *sigh*
 

Rikka Takarada 2

You only like me for my thighs
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This is the problem with trying to deal with people who get sucked into cults - there's no longer anything you can say to convince them that they're wrong because they're so indoctrinated and have a convenient rationalisation or whataboutism for everything (in this case all criticism is racist and homophobic rather than sincere).

Cruel to be kind, but the only thing you can do in the short term is cut him out of your lives. But make clear that, on your end, the line of communication will always be open. Then that's about it (apart from maybe reminding him by inviting him to the occasional event where you can). You just have to wait until he figures things out on his own or (more likely) is abused and excommunicated.

One more thing: if you think what he's saying is bad now, it *will* get worse before it gets better - but if you still want to eventually be friends and welcome him back into reality, you have to be prepared to look past what he said when he was a cult member, and always remind yourself that you were dealing with a brainwashee (think of the SJW shit as a parasite controlling the brain) rather than his own authentic thoughts.

When he gets out, he will need time to readjust and "unlearn" bad ways of thinking, and may snap back into them at times, but it's important that you (or other people like his family, if there ends up being too much water under the bridge) are there to lead him back onto the straight and narrow - and also ultimately to remind him that he has a world to go back to, and that the people around him who sucked him into this situation aren't the only people who'll ever care about or understand him. That's crucial for giving someone the courage to actually leave when they feel something isn't right.
 

Chin of Campbell

Un-chinny Valley
True & Honest Fan
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One of my very best friends moved to the city a few years after high school. He used to be real into turkey hunting, we'd play video games and call each other faggots.

When I went to visit him he wasn't the same person. Textbook hipster hair/beard, ear gauges, faggy tattoos. I called him a faggot while we were playing some game and he got real mad at me. While we were eating chinese food later in the day he explained to me the "horrors" of whitewashing in Marvel movies. He inevitably brought Trump up and hoo boy did it spiral from there. I tried my best the whole time to be amicable with him since he was still one of my best pals, but things were never the same after that.

Fuck this liberal faggot shit. It turns normal, fun people into fun-vacuum robots. You might have a chance if you stay on your friend's ass about this, but being steeped in shit makes you come out smelling like it.

Best of luck, friend. Truly.
 

kadoink

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Lost a few friends to PC faggotry about 5 years ago. Also doesn't help being a sperg who didnt know I was a sperg because by the time I finished my first year of college was when high shcools were able to identify what a sperg was. Course it also doesn't help as a sperg I'm a little closer to being a non sperg than most spergs on the sperg are(but I got sperg trouble in the emotional areas still).

More concerned for two of my nephews who are also spergs but are on the spergier part of spergery and the older one really has a lot of trouble with it. I feel sorry for him and my sister is doing her best to help him out and work with him but he's got an uphill battle :/

I have noticed a lot of spergs are immune to PC faggotry where as non spergs get sucked into it pretty easy. Treating PC faggotry as cult behavior is a necessity. Avoid it when you can.
 

Shaved Kiwis

Memetic Polyalloy
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Not to be a cock, but part of this is on you guys for not shunning him into compliance. Why are you letting him dictate the behavior of the group? Normally the individual gets shunned for violating the rules of the clique. Give him an ultimatum if he wants to hang with you guys and break it down for him that ya'll think him sucking dicks is ok but all the other fagatronics isn't.
 

I should be working

Someone in the office keeps stealing my pens.
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Fake an Failed Suicide and leave a suicide note that outright blames his "toxic behaviour". You'll likely be asked to spend the next week away of from school for mental health reasons and when you get back just avoid talking to the guy or making eye contact.
Things will work out in the end.
 
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PL 001

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It may sound harsh to say, but I feel you need to show some "tough love" with people like this. I've been there also with an old friend and one of my siblings. You give them an inch and they'll take a mile. Either put your foot down, be blunt and tell them that they need to curb the bullshit, or cut them out of your life. True friends shouldn't turn on you out of the blue because you may have some political differences, they especially shouldn't throw around grevious accusations of bigotry at their friends. That's a very quick way to foster resentment and anger.

It really is like a cult mentality. I wish that were just me being hyperbolic, but it's true. The longer you keep placating them, the more they'll drag you down into the muck and start negatively affecting your life. Lay down the law in no uncertain terms on how they're making you and the rest of the group feel. If that still doesn't break through, let them go until they can remember who they were before becoming corrupted. It might not happen, but you'll be better off in the long run.
 

BigUglyRetard

I'm in too deep.
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One more thing: if you think what he's saying is bad now, it *will* get worse before it gets better - but if you still want to eventually be friends and welcome him back into reality, you have to be prepared to look past what he said when he was a cult member, and always remind yourself that you were dealing with a brainwashee (think of the SJW shit as a parasite controlling the brain) rather than his own authentic thoughts.
The whole reason we still talk to him is because we want the old him back. In the end, we're the only thing he's got that resembles friends. He talks to nobody else and if we cut him off for good, he'd probably kill himself. I'd be more than happy to forget about this phase but he shows no sign of coming back to reality. He genuinely sees us as a blight on the country and I just hope he comes back around.
 

NOT Sword Fighter Super

"Cheerleeder" of Slapfights
True & Honest Fan
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He also became extremely insecure about his looks, weight, diet (chicken strips and peanut butter)
One thing he'd love to throw out into the group chat is the fact that his dick is small (3" when hard rip)
:story:
I'd say tell him to fuck off. He doesn't sound like much fun anymore and a total attention whore.
 
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