would you be in a relationship with a sex worker? - commitment and loyalty is so old fashioned!

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is it ok to whore yourselve out when in a relationship?

  • yes

    Votes: 13 5.5%
  • no

    Votes: 160 67.2%
  • only if they post nudes onlne

    Votes: 9 3.8%
  • only if they are a stripper

    Votes: 13 5.5%
  • get back too the kitchen(female) get a real job(male)

    Votes: 43 18.1%

  • Total voters
    238

Gravityqueen4life

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ever since the idubbbz fiasco, alot of people have gone out of their way defending men (and women) who are in a relationship with strippers, prostitutes and even porn stars. why do you think people are ok now with open relationships or their significant other sleeping around? people defend this by saying "they doing this too support the household", "its their relationship and you have no right to criticize them!" or "i dont own the person. they can do whatever".

what happened with "until death do us part"? what happen with being loyal to the people you love and holding yourself too a higher standard? everyone wants to be a fucking sell-out, a shill to some big corporation or some mouth piece movie star (A WHORE)! things like having dignity or self respect seems too become less and less worth something. i have been called a fucking incel, a evangelical christian or a right winger for calling out on this crap! i think im going mental!
 
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Marco Fucko

I fantasized about this back in Chicago
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If you're in a conventional, monogamous relationship then it's an obvious no. The type of people I've met personally who have engaged in relationships with "sex workers" are dumb and kind of trashy, and for some reason don't see their stripper girlfriend sleeping with a customer coming.

That being said, if one wants to be adventurous and see a lady of the night on the side while also seeing someone else on the other side, then they probably understand how things go and don't have any illusions about it.

what happened with "until death do us part"? what happened to being loyal too the people you love and holding yourself too a higher standard?

Modern times are incompatible with traditionalist values, for better or worse. This goes without saying and must be accounted for when considering one's goals or desires.
 

SSF2T Old User

Summer Time = Summer Babes
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i have been called a fucking incel or a right winger for calling out on this crap! i think im going mental!

Don't let shit like that get to you. It's pretty clear that clown world has been in affect for quite some time, so it's pretty much opposite day every day. What once was considered controversial and not acceptable is now being trotted out like it's the greatest thing to ever happen to society. The people that defend this kind of behavior are more of the big problem than the person doing the act in question, and unfortunately when it comes to women the amount of white knights defending their misbehavior increase with each passing year. "incel" and "right-winger" along with other words like "virgin" or "nazi" is just the new cheap insult they can toss whenever they don't have a proper argument to the conversation. If those are the only reactions you are getting when you call out bullshit then you can rest assured that you've already won and can just walk away. No point in arguing with an NPC that's just programmed to think one way and ONLY one way.

As for people that actually WANT a monogamous relationship (like me, which to answer your question, hell no i wouldn't be in a relationship with a sex worker), they are still out there, but unfortunately they are the minority in the dating world. I've already mentioned how shit online dating is, but even then, no one should just give up and lower their standards by doing the same thing everyone else is doing. Just stay single until you know for sure you've met the right one that isn't bat-shit crazy like everyone else in the world.
 

raritycat

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No. I've unfortunately come into contact with many sex workers and former sex workers over the years despite not seeking them out. The majority of them are complete idiots. They have no barometer for danger and put everyone they surround themselves at risk over the stupidest shit. I'm not letting one into my home.
 

Otis Boi

Chunky Cow man extraordinaire
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I could never date someone who does sex work while we are in a relationship even if it's an only fans. I think it because it just shows how little they think of their own bodies. I must sound like a boomer but fuck I like intimacy meaning something and people respecting themselves.

Also your girlfriend/boyfriend having an only fans is like one step above being a cuck because Simps are just pathetic
 

GrotesqueBushes

Null yeeted my spaghetti dog avatar
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Lmao you backwards nazis, just ignore the basic chemistry of your brain and the actual mechanical effect of endorphin release, and the risk of STDs, and the higher chance of domestic violence, and the inclination towards mental issues, and the cultural implications, and enjoy your proud sex worker girlfriend you bigots!
 

break these cuffs

THANK YOU AJ
True & Honest Fan
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No. They're being whores instead of getting a job because they're lazy and dysfunctional. They earn their money illegally, in most jurisdictions, and the community is rife with STDs, physical and emotional violence, and drug abuse. Why would I put myself through the hell of caring about someone who cares so little about themselves? It would take a series of severe concussions for me to believe their work life wouldn't affect me in any way and their destructive patterns of behavior would not affect our relationship.
 

Meat Poultry Veg

The staff of life
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Get your autistic ratings ready because of what I'm about to say:

Motherhood is the supreme vocation of a woman. Women are more biologically geared toward being mothers than men are to being fathers--their natural hormone balance favors building fat over building muscle (which provides surplus energy and carbon for building a child), their anatomy reminds them violently every month, "Hey, you're not pregnant; what gives?" And with the decreased muscle mass is a concomitant increased tendency towards increased dependence on others, particularly men, to supply their natural defects. Biologically this means that a woman's survival strategy is to make herself agreeable to a man so that she would have a provider and protector, while her side of the bargain is to provide him with sexual congress and children that can be the beneficiaries of the surplus of his labor.

If motherhood and prostitution can be compared to occupation models, the former is traditional employment and the latter is freelancing. Prostitution in a sense is ersatz motherhood because the woman's side of the bargain is drastically reduced; she only has to provide sex and not children. On the other hand, the man is provider only and not a protector. To compensate for this reduction, prostitutes have to cast as wide a net as possible to meet her monetary needs because the man she's with is only with him for an hour, but there are 24 in a day, right? But wait, are we forgetting something?

The child. Before the sexual revolution (and the contraceptive revolution that preceded it), it was taken for granted that children were the result of sex. This hasn't escaped the notice of prostitutes throughout history (oldest profession, anyone?) so there were two avenues available to a "product of conception." The first was for the prostitute-mother to raise her child anyway, while clinging to her survival strategy. This is suboptimal for both because the father, if he could be identified, would be hesitant to claim his child and mother the mother would have to divide her attention to men who aren't the father. The second, of course, was termination. This gets rid of the problem of divided attention and absconding fathers, but the only problem, of course, is that it's fucking murder.

This is why no matter how strong the rhetoric is about how "sex work is real work", in the souls of uncucked men, a prostitute is trash, no matter how wealthy she is. It indicates that she uses her body to get ahead in life but frustrates the natural end of her biology. And these days, with Planned Parenthood clamoring for more funds and the right to stay open while the planet is under quarantine, a man who learns a woman is a former prostitute can't help but wonder how many tiny souls got in the way of her foul business.
 

Shadfan666xxx000

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No. You'd have to be crazy to go into that work in the 1st place. Best case scenario I typically see with sex workers are depressed weirdos in terms of relationships and the rest are outright sluts who will try to milk your wallet drier than your dick. Don't engage these people beyond paying for your hour. You'll find so many good matches if you keep your eyes open and your feet moving.
 

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