A perfect example of what you're talking about is Hungry Fat Chick. Hungry Fat Chick has a fucked up life that fucked up her kids lives and she open and honest and remorseful about it without knowing how to fix her shit because she's got some real deep mental issues she doesn't know how to fix. I don't hate her, I just find her really really sad. It makes Amber's fake crocodile tears when she's not getting enough asspats more frustrating to compare her to someone who's honest about how fucked she is though.She doesn't even have to do anything big if she wants to make her life better. If she wants to eat herself to an early grave, so be it. I understand not everyone has the capability to control their impulses, but she could very well reduce the hate she gets simply by stopping the lies and the cuntiness. If she actually came clean about her life and admitted to lying about her weight complete with an honest weight reveal, she can easily turn some of the haters into supporters, even if she never made any effort to lose weight after that. She can keep at her mundane vlogs and as long as she's honest and nice, most people won't find cause to hate her. She'll still die early thanks to the blubber, sure, but like late-stage cancer patients who opt for palliative care instead of going under more rounds of painful chemo for no gains at all, at least the remainder of her life won't be full of online hate, and this is important for her because she's never going away from her lone means of making money - she's never gonna go offline.