/r/Hapas - A subreddit dedicated to hating white dads and Asian moms

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I know quite a few actual hapas, and I hate to admit it's true. A majority of the ones I know are rather low achieving and unsuccessful. I've asked someone who is a hapa why this occurs and the answer makes quite a bit of sense. Almost all asian women have a certain type of parenting, which is usually helicoptering and or tiger mom style parenting. Their fathers on the other hand usually don't want much to do with parenting or work heavy hours leading their mom to take the primary role. When you have one parent who expects you to get great grades and be successful, while neglecting to teach any actual skills (such as social skills, independent thinking skills, knowing how to make even the simplest meals, knowing how to pay a bill or do taxes) it leads to a mental breakdown when they leave or want to leave home because they have no clue how to function independently. And a lot of these people usually end up never leaving home, or end up in shitty relationships to fill the void of the caregiver who does everything for them.

There's a massive class dimension to this, though. A poor family would make them go out and work rather than floundering around in despondency.

In Siberia and Central Asia white/Asian mixed race people are quite common, but they're usually poor and often the father is Asian. They tend to be much like anyone else. The Russian defence minister Sergey Shoygu had a Tuvan father and Russian mother, and some Korean labourers deported to Central Asia by Stalin intermarried with Russians. There are also some people descended from Japanese POWs taken during World War 2, who seduced local women.

I don't think the Russian version of /r/hapas would be anywhere near as active, though there is a lot of anti-Asian hostility from Russian nationalists.
 

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I saw an Asian woman who said that she was so happy on instagram that her son looked "white" even though he was like max 1 and his "white features" like his eyes and light hair were already turning dark and looking "squnity" and after denying all claims of self hate and that she loved herself she ironically did state that she does want a blue eyed white looking grandchild. There was an article about how a hapa said that his life was living hell especially because he looked way more "Asian".

Then it hit me on why so many of AW/WM children seem so fucked up in the head and why that sub seems to be a breeding ground for them. Many of times, the parents seem to be messed up people.

I have several half white friends and remembered at least one of the Asian moms out right stating that they didn't want the child to be dark skinned like an African. I even met a couple where the Asian woman hanged out with Asians, loved her Asian heritage but only dated white and was stuck up as well. Her hubby only hung out with white people, didn't seem to like Asian culture but surprise only dated Asians. It was almost like a fetish.

I know not all of them act like that but I live in an area filled with hapas and have met many of their parents, talked with many of them and went to school with several hapas. I kind of pity many of them.
 
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Then it hit me on why so many of AW/WM children seem so fucked up in the head. Their parents many times seem to be messed up people.
The idea that AMWF Hapas are somehow better is kind of irrelevant when you take people like Pixyteri who was (IIRC) a AMWF Hapa and there was I believe one pornstar who was an AMWF Hapa, it's just that WMAF Hapas are a lot more common.
There was an article about how a hapa said that his life was living hell especially because he looked way more "Asian".
Reminds me of this post:
https://archive.md/QRrfu
I can't fucking take this shit anymore. To be born a completely asian looking WMAF son is the worst pain, even the kids in Africa know who they are, have a community around them, have a dad who doesn't consider them inferior, live in a society which respects them. I HATE IT. I HATE WHO I AM SO MUCH. There better be a fucking heaven, because we deserve that shit, and 90% of the fucking WMAF couples deserves to the other place. I'm on the verge of giving up, I don't even know what giving up would be.
I've always found it interesting how some Hapas look completely Asian, some look inbetween (like Elliot Rodger) and how some look almost completely white (sort of resembling Eric Rudolph).
 

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The idea that AMWF Hapas are somehow better is kind of irrelevant when you take people like Pixyteri who was (IIRC) a AMWF Hapa and there was I believe one pornstar who was an AMWF Hapa, it's just that WMAF Hapas are a lot more common.

I'm well aware and I wasn't implying that. I was saying from my experience and because WMAF is more common and that is the one I'm more use to seeing and talking to.

I've always found it interesting how some Hapas look completely Asian, some look inbetween (like Elliot Rodger) and how some look almost completely white (sort of resembling Eric Rudolph).

Genes are a crazy thing. Tbh, regardless of who the asian parent is, the majority either look overwhemingly asian or a mixture of both asian/european. I met one though who had medium brown hair and pale skin but his eyes and nose looked undoubtedly "Asian" if that makes sense.
 

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They usually only care about asian women from countries like Japan, S. Korea, and China. They don't care about south east asia or central asia for example
 

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Bit unrelated but the fuck is with succesful white men on the internet resorting to mail-order brides still? Maximilian, Linus, half of anyone streaming an MMO.

Dating an asian as a whole still has that 'bought love' feel to it; i'd be pissed if my parents were like that too.
 

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Yeah, who the fuck are these people and who cares? You gotta give us more then a screen cap and a video. Give us some background for this.
 

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https://8ch.net/tenda/res/67.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKft5aIEz24

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tF7e1LFOXns&t=30s

Eurasian Tiger (Tenda Spencer) is an incel who is also the founder of the r/hapa subreddit and hates all white men who are married to Asian women (he is half Chinese-half white), while idolizing Asian men who marry white women. Persephone is a white woman who was married to an Asian man. They both started as youtubers and soon had some internet relationship, which was huge gossip because they were both married. Then his father got brain cancer and he had to return to the US from China to take care of his schizophrenic brother. Persephone didn't accept that he wouldn't leave his Chinese wife for her and paid internet services to find the wife. According to her, Tenda doesn't have a wife or brother and all this time he has been the 35 year old incel virgin in the basement. She seemed to still want to be with him, but he is hiding and posting on reddit from myriads of sockpuppets.
 

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I just want to say the dude's name is Tendie Spencer, and with a name so close to "tendie dispencer", he should be some neckbeard's mom.

I swear to god I will shoot off in my pants if his middle name starts with d. "Tendie D. Spencer"? I dont know why I love this so much but I do.

Wait what the fuck is going on with this drama? I listened to her screaming and she's screaming about his bitch sister, their retarded square head kid, some bakery and skeleton bedrooms and no sex, and how he has a Greek credit card so she wasnt in him for money. Is he in Greece or, Im getting confused with all the race shit going on.
 
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I just want to say the dude's name is Tendie Spencer, and with a name so close to "tendie dispencer", he should be some neckbeard's mom.

I swear to god I will shoot off in my pants if his middle name starts with d. "Tendie D. Spencer"? I dont know why I love this so much but I do.

Wait what the fuck is going on with this drama? I listened to her screaming and she's screaming about his bitch sister, their exceptional square head kid, some bakery and skeleton bedrooms and no sex, and how he has a Greek credit card so she wasnt in him for money. Is he in Greece or, Im getting confused with all the race shit going on.
Searching that name, I came across this:
This is Tendie Spencer right here, compared to some of the other pictures of him that have been around.